@heartofdating: Have you ever thought of people pleasing as… toxic? 👀 If you’ve ever said, “I’m just a people pleaser,” this episode might lovingly call you up a little bit. We had the honor of sitting down with Debra Fileta and WOW. She unpacks how people pleasing can show up subtly, unintentionally, and even feel “kind” on the surface but actually be rooted in fear, insecurity, or control. This one is eye-opening, freeing, and practical.

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Wednesday 25 February 2026 17:06:11 GMT