@mei.dates: you're not being too much, you're just being EFFICIENT #nyclife #nyc #intentionaldating #datingadvice #datingtips

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loid72
LOID :
my favorite question to ask is "What's your perfect day?" it will tell you about someone's lifestyle or preferred way to do things and it can be helpful to learn about them a bit more.
2026-02-26 06:17:35
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babyhb1394
H. :
Bro these sound like job interviews lmaooo
2026-02-28 02:14:59
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abcxytz1246
abcxytz1246 :
They are just going to give model answers. Dumb pre date questions. Just observe their BL
2026-03-01 15:41:00
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callmejasy
Jul🦉 :
and then when u ask this questions, they just say "idk". I might just quit man...
2026-02-27 19:45:21
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lucie.7799
Paula.7799🌅 :
"What's your love language/s?" Is so important too☺️You deserve to get your love language too
2026-04-21 15:07:31
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blregh
K :
I thought asking all of these would sound too serious or too much for 1st date but turns out I should have just asked 😌 wasted 1yr+ lol
2026-02-28 07:17:37
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shxniraaaa
Shxniraaaa :
What was slide number 6 ?
2026-02-26 21:37:09
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verneseraven
Weiven :
maybe rephrase them a bit not to sound too stuffy. it is still a getting to know stage, they are wonderful questions btw. as a growing adult ill need this for future references. in fact rn im heartbroken .. i didnt get to have clear facts as i stuck myself with hope thinking everything is going to be alright that if i went w the flow and had faith in the phrase “ we’ll see” i had thought we’ll end up totally together in the end. sadly… we didnt get to end up together.. he had other priorities..
2026-04-09 12:40:52
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kuronokitsune7
KuronoKitsune7 :
Thanks even though I'm single 🙃
2026-02-26 03:19:07
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labeeb2k
Farhan Labeeb :
These are actually really important things, not all though. But some conversations need to be held up early before getting into a relationship with someone. How they view things, have perception on certain topics etc. Helps you understand scenarios that might go in the future with them very clearly. My girlfriend and I spent solid 3 months with rough and tough questions and answers fully Raw and unfiltered. Which helped us figure out each other as much as we can before we were finally ready to take the decision of being together
2026-03-31 16:57:55
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fluffapotamus
Justin Jung :
The thing is… I’ll forget majority of what they say after that 😅
2026-04-06 17:02:54
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gri3vinggrav3ss
Blaine 📚🦇 :
I feel like I'd get stressed and couldnt answer a single question lmao
2026-03-01 13:24:43
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broncoandrufus
Bronco and Rufus :
before my first date I straight up told him I have 3 dogs and 3 cats we are a PACKAGED deal if you dont think you can handle living with 6 animals I am not the woman for you. asked if they HAVE kids and if they want MORE or WANT kids. finding out if someone has a child from previous relationship. if so are you okay with it? decide before going on saod date
2026-03-02 19:39:11
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lundikus
Lundin :
truly things i should have asked :/
2026-02-26 08:58:12
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_en.o
fellow hiccupling :
not really...some people wont answer these stuff before dating, or they might just know not how to word their answer out like the answer for the communication question. they might just tell u smth vague or unclear and then youll start to overthink and get it worse..some of these are better discovered when youre with the person, to see how they actually act when smth real happens and then youll decide what suits u because youll have realistic reasons, not words said. it might sound like a dumb idea to invest in somebody for long time and then find out theyre not the one for u, but u cant really figure out everything in pre-date, not even in first few dates...
2026-04-05 09:27:09
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chrisyingherr
Christopher Herr :
"what's your attachment style?" this question shouldn't be so scary
2026-02-28 06:58:22
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y0.m0mm
Kaitlin 🪤 :
Yeah, never delete this
2026-04-20 16:24:24
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lwazinumber1
🪩🕴️✨ :
Slide 6: huh???
2026-04-05 22:20:07
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ellemarie89
Danielle 💋 :
how do I ask this? does it needs timing ?
2026-04-21 04:56:29
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becxdivineworld
IntentionallyBecx🪞👑💃🐶🎶💫 :
tysm for sharing ✨these are interesting & thought out questions. I can see having them for its own conversation
2026-02-28 22:36:02
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adetubio
YSO :
we broke up after a year bc of the kids one 😭 we rly tried to make it work oh well
2026-03-14 11:17:16
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5gabi_7
𝓰𝓪𝓫𝓲 :
its weird people don't ask thesee
2026-05-19 15:28:12
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colemanrd503
Robert Coleman :
Oh girl after getting out of a long time relationship i will definitely be using all of these in the future
2026-03-10 22:47:30
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thishowloveworks
luv :
Interesting!!
2026-03-30 02:12:40
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scoria621
Scoria :
saving these for later 👀
2026-03-02 02:38:18
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