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jan :
as an asian, i resonate with this. as a filipino, we are raised to constantly complain to inconveniences but still do the work anyway
2026-02-26 09:12:35
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Vanessa Obas :
I agree with the 1st one sooooo much
2026-02-26 11:45:04
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nojsejo :
So weird to say but I love your hands, you have so elegant fingers
2026-03-09 22:56:45
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cheezzewhiz :
This is why I'm alone:/
2026-02-26 17:12:17
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shalatannisa :
Agreed with this so much. I listen to my intuition a lot that I would just naturally distancing myself from people that gives me negativity. I won’t put myself in a situation where I feel stuck with them.
2026-03-18 08:11:17
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Baynez :
One thing you learn about growing up is that sometimes everyone needs introspection and think about whether it’s also themselves that’s the issue. It’s not always someone else 🤷♂️all these content on tik Tok encourages people to look outwards but rarely tells you to do inner work.
2026-03-25 02:40:17
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lucymallory0 :
For those confused about #1, there’s a balance! Yes it’s healthy to be able to vent and release frustration and stress, BUT it’s not great when it’s all the time. Also, I can feel when people complain just to bring others down to their miserable state (like if I’m not happy then nobody is happy), which is why it’s important to recollect yourself after ranting and end on a somewhat positive note to “tie off” that energy.
2026-04-26 16:42:40
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꧁ 𝖑𝖎𝖟 ꧂ :
1000% this! also the people who are hot/cold towards you are mostly envious - which also feeds into the concept of evil eye as well! 🧿
2026-02-26 22:17:35
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Lou :
I’m not sure if it’s intuition or just anxiety for me sometimes. When I sense someone is coming towards me with a plan in mind without telling me, I get immediately sceptical and wonder why they don’t tell me or ask. But I don’t ask as well. I have trouble to be playful in interactions cause I want to be 100% sure of everything 🤷♀️
2026-03-22 07:03:52
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jackson :
Agree with everything you said! 🌞
2026-02-26 17:39:32
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Natt :
I start to be the first one once I feel anxious in the group 😬😬 without the complaining part tho! how to stop 😭😭
2026-03-01 11:05:19
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morby dick :
i love my fyp 🪷
2026-02-26 17:24:18
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leirbaaag :
What if you’re all 3 of these ppl tho 🤣
2026-03-06 23:59:54
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Diandra Agapie :
I love what you’re saying! Please keep making these sort of introspective videos, I adore listening to you 🌸💕
2026-02-26 09:50:03
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42777c :
does anyone have any advice on how to stop being a chaos person
2026-03-06 15:50:23
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nailah :
Heavy on the first one! I was working with this woman and I fellt so overwhelming and exhausted and now she left and I feel so calm and happy
2026-03-21 07:39:17
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trinity_kry_7333333 :
Me too. Even when I can’t explain why I don’t feel comfortable w those ppl, I still decide not to get close to them if possible. I paid later more when I ignored my intuition
2026-03-22 20:10:00
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†༙🎀†༙ :
How do u build your intuition?
2026-03-08 04:18:25
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erdiyn :
For #1, the opposite kind of happened with me, I was an eager freshman and my niche program in college only had 3 other people. I wouldn't say they're negative, but some were troubled as shiftees and most were timid or reserved. I tried to adjust my eagerness to relate to their unenthusiasm, but it was evident that I was the odd one in the group. I felt like the negative person in the group bcs I couldn't connect well with them.
2026-04-05 08:41:52
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таня 🧚🏼♀️ :
do you have a Substack?
2026-03-23 17:52:57
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Chloe :
That vibe means everything
2026-04-02 14:48:27
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Mila :
What about if you complain but make it into jokes ?
2026-03-08 08:22:43
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Lina :
@🌟n0pEydanope
2026-02-28 08:32:56
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K :
So well said! Thank you for this!!
2026-02-26 10:32:36
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reiaerissu :
true but try to be understanding and empathy. There's a reason over everything. they're not a bad person. no one is a bad person. situation change and shape people.
2026-05-14 07:52:46
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