@forthemenilove: Why people DON'T LIKE IT when you are NICE to them #men #women #dating #relationships

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moneymann504
MONEYMANN504 :
Bro I love people who nice too me… you trippin
2026-02-26 15:56:06
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jaiocchialini_
Pikachu :
I love when ppl are sweet to me because I love myself. I deserve nothing less
2026-02-28 04:36:07
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scanspeak05
Scanspeak05 :
Damn I wish I knew this a long time ago.
2026-02-26 11:25:21
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optionals_unopened_chair
Zach with an H :
Wrong. Relationships should have mutual energy and reciprocation. If not it’s not a real relationship, it’s a power fantasy masked as preference. If someone isn’t giving equal energy back or always makes you chase, do NOT keep pursuing
2026-03-05 18:07:55
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clubmasterrs
1Kaz :
Who is this dude? Does he have a youtube
2026-02-26 16:50:09
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shinneyteethh
shinneyteethh :
I didn’t know I was being selfish lol. I just realized that I guess I wanted them to reciprocate for my own selfish wants
2026-02-26 15:16:13
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nickreif
nick reif :
This is brilliant. Thank you for this
2026-02-25 22:16:12
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chevyakacommas
Chevy :
He's right, it all boils down to attraction. The right thing is always the wrong thing depending on who it's coming from...
2026-03-04 11:32:54
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chromiumite
Jayanth M :
This is such an interesting conversation on this concept. I vaguely had knowledge of the concept but I had no idea how to explain it way that made sense. I also liked the point of anonymous gifting because it’s something I thought about too. Sometimes I catch myself thinking “am I doing this to be nice or because I want them to feel good about me”? Helps me think through if I’m seeking validation in a subversive way or if I’m genuinely doing something good
2026-02-26 11:04:53
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user69577964
Peter B :
Simple, grounded kindness — with boundaries — is one of the strongest predictors of long-term likability.
2026-02-27 06:36:49
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el3quin4
Daniel :
Humans are so interesting
2026-05-10 20:58:11
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wishwash777
WishWash777 :
I’ve now channeled those nice sweet things into myself. I buy myself flowers, candy, jewelry cute things cards.
2026-02-27 04:05:59
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starjason
jace :
amazing analysis , don’t agree w it all but very well put together. dude has a gift
2026-02-26 18:00:41
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k1ng_wayne
Wayne Flake Jr. :
Respect me thats all I ask for
2026-03-01 00:07:01
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slc_dave
SLC Dave :
dang, I do this. due to childhood abandonment.
2026-02-26 14:09:28
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sihlangu.bongani
sihlangu Bongani :
I have demanded my gifts back....🎁
2026-03-08 17:29:03
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nothingallthesame
Fickleflake :
Man this makes so much sense to me thinking of people I’ve known and past relationships.. Spot on analysis 👍
2026-02-26 15:29:00
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5conditions
5conditions :
excellent!
2026-03-31 19:33:25
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idf20256
IDF2025 :
Authenticity
2026-02-26 18:07:49
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rachel_rachelll
rachel_rachelll :
Omg.. this makes soooooo much sense. 💡💡💡
2026-02-27 22:53:50
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cnnrcr
connor :
is this a podcast on like spotify?
2026-02-27 15:16:44
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ruinrxcvn60
DreamProcessing :
Thank u
2026-02-27 03:12:07
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beaupenny5
Beau❤️Penny :
reaching for content
2026-02-27 23:50:32
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kilimeofficiel
Kilime :
So we just only need to be unmeasurably nice to ourselves.
2026-02-26 20:48:01
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ai_cashguy
aiCashGuy :
This has answered a lot of questions for me. WOW!
2026-02-26 20:18:35
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