@lila.perimenopaus.relief: Mine? The sadness. The kind that creeps in out of nowhere and sits heavy in your chest. Some days I feel like I’m grieving a version of myself I can’t get back. The mood swings, the tears, the loneliness it’s a lot. 💔 #Perimenopause #WomenOver40 #perimenopausesupport #womenshealth #menopause

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clbmama
Freedom Barton :
The anxiety! I’ve always had it but all of the sudden it’s so bad… I’m always anxious now and my heart is always racing.
2026-07-22 15:19:06
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samerafit
Women 40+ Weight Loss :
This is Ai
2026-07-22 06:46:22
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izabelasaldat5
Izabela Saldat :
anxiety, fatigue, wanting to be alone all the time and cant find anything that makes me happy 🤦🏼‍♀️
2026-02-26 14:53:37
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rebelyellsdesign
rebelyellsdesign :
The absolute lack of enjoyment. Nothing excites me anymore. That ‘meh’ feeling. Not really depressed but everything feels flat. Except for the random rage now and then.
2026-02-27 06:35:18
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warrenhouston16
Warren 977 :
Husband here…. Feel like this needs to be talked about more. I am doing my best to support, but it’s hard not to internalize many of these things. It helps reading this stuff Thanks for sharing ❤️
2026-03-01 18:13:53
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vitalytia
Vitalija🇱🇹❤️💜💙 :
Brain fog is killing, I'm forgetting words I use everyday 😳
2026-02-26 17:06:14
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ewelinamonikacegielka
ewelinamonikacegielka :
Insomnia and this overwhelmig feeling of lost ... lost opportunities, lost youth, lost me as a person... its very hard
2026-02-26 14:46:15
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maria.fashionover40
maria.fashionover40 :
I just want to be alone alllllllll the time
2026-02-26 21:02:58
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clairek.mum
Claire Kendrick :
I dont know who I am anymore
2026-02-26 16:15:19
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peps1212
Nikki Fitch :
DRIVING ANXIETY!!!!!!!!
2026-02-26 17:03:23
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amykingpaul
Amy King Paul :
Brain fog is the worst part. Sometimes I feel like I have Alzheimer’s.
2026-03-02 03:17:51
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user2119116150663
user2119116150663 :
As a husband of a wife going through this, I find it disgusting that the medical field is so uneducated in perimenopause etc.More needs to be done to educate everyone.
2026-03-03 14:32:29
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kellyj0230
kellyj0230 :
The constant irritation, about EVERYTHING and EVERYONE
2026-03-01 02:02:57
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aylastanley
aylastanley :
The emptiness. Like my soul has drifted to a place there’s no joy or light.
2026-02-26 11:55:19
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tamarag79
Tamara :
Not being able to sleep past 3am EVERY morning
2026-03-08 10:19:30
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rachaelendicott31
Rachael Melgar :
I’m always exhausted! No matter how much sleep I get! 😫
2026-03-04 19:46:29
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missford312
Missford312 :
No desire to do anything. Just want to be alone. The weight gain 😩
2026-03-03 12:03:16
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islandtai
Tainelle Abang-Reyes :
Weight gain out of nowhere, mentally drained.
2026-03-05 01:20:06
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juliotanguma610
Julio :
Husband here, all yo I can do is support by helping her in any way possible. Fan blower with remote so she doesn't have to get up or you to turn fan on when she gets hot flash, make sure she stay hydrated, rub her joints, get portable neck fan or neck cooler not freezing. Make sure she has healthy stuff to eat so it doesn't cause more hot flashes. wet rag soft to cool her down. Get her protein and hydrating drinks. Her muscles will sore from cramping so maybe some creatine if she's up to it. Yes she will over salt the food so don't complain just order or make something else. give lots of kisses and rubs for support. She is your Queen and EVERYTHING revolves around her and her comfort. Happy wife comfortable life. It sucks watching mine go through it. Especially when you eats something that affects her. But she is mine. I love her beyond words.
2026-05-02 15:49:08
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sheenanigans_82
sheenanigans_82 :
Feeling extremely ugly all the time and night sweats.
2026-03-06 23:17:51
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_jenn.nay_
Jenn♡ :
I want my hair back
2026-03-01 19:09:13
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rachaelwilliams1
rachwilliams :
I’m literally in tears reading these comments because I feel exactly the same way ☹️
2026-02-26 19:01:21
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shazzalou78
Sarah Louise ashmore :
Mine is the sadness and can’t be bothered to do anything
2026-02-26 17:01:57
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howeslifeweplay
howeslifeweplay :
The sadness I miss being happy
2026-02-26 18:39:50
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missskiwii
MissKiwi 🇸🇪 :
I'm so tired of work, of the daily struggle, the daily commute, getting up early every morning, doing a job I don't even like. 💀 Just so I can live..
2026-02-26 19:01:47
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