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Abe :
as a guy, being rejected isnt always just being rejected. sometimes you get loudly and publicly rejected and its a spectical.
2026-02-26 15:30:48
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Santiago Villegas :
so when women are hurt it's their feelings, when men are hurt its our ego... right
2026-02-26 19:41:00
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Mark Williams8433 :
i'm a man who doesn't go for "who I can" why would I risk getting rejected by someone I don't even want?
2026-02-26 16:46:33
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Zach J :
I do think she was right about most men going for the most attractive woman they think they can get instead of the most attractive woman but I don’t think it’s usually an ego thing I think men just tend to have a more efficiency based approach like most men don’t try to do things they think they can’t do in general cus that’s a waste of time
2026-02-26 17:40:40
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NO SIR E :
It’s true men date who they can and women date who they want, but the opposite happens when it’s time to get married
2026-02-26 14:57:00
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Oh man :
Asking someone out that you already have genuine feelings for is one of the most terrifying things you can do. Also I really disagree with her point, I think one of the reasons you often see couples where the female is a lot better looking than the male is because the male is asking more attractive women out, where women very rarely approach a man first.
2026-02-26 15:03:15
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lenoyl :
Embarrassment is someone always overlooked. Approaching someone is already really embarrassing but then also being rejected makes that even worse.
2026-02-26 15:25:12
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BILLLIE :
so tired of the repeated oversimplification arguments, thank you for always bringing nuance to the conversation
2026-02-26 19:12:39
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Imminent Ursa :
The incredibly attractive women are single because they want the same incredibly attractive men that every woman wants, and he has access to pretty much the entire population of women, so why would he bother picking just one?
2026-02-26 20:05:58
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Rose 🌹|🇵🇷🇩🇴 :
Dating has become so polarizing that, as someone who understands these nuances, it's becoming unbearable to do so. I like to treat people the way I'd like to be treated and we have lost that in general. lf you approach me respectfully, then I will let you down gently (if I'm not interested). And if there's someone that I'm interested in, I might make the approach because I'm aware that in general men are approaching less. Rejection hurts as hell, but learning how to move forward from that is a very essential skill that can be applied in many areas of life. I do wish people would treat each other better because I have seen some people being outlandishly loud when it comes to rejecting people in public and it's not always necessary.
2026-02-27 04:26:04
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MM :
I love how anytime I see ur videos you speak with empathy you don’t demonize one group
2026-02-27 03:10:11
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fooly :
sometimes it’s like this
2026-03-04 05:51:10
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Brandon Max :
I’ve been single 6-7 years now
2026-02-27 04:53:20
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Bullet Proof Don Dada :
Not. Worth. The. Energy.
2026-02-26 20:07:06
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Keaggan :
physical attraction as the base line for a "quality" is wild
2026-02-26 17:50:12
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Itsmejesusong :
People always think they bigger than the program
2026-02-26 21:03:25
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John :
I have been able to date women out of my league because I was the only person to ask them. 🤷♂️
2026-02-26 17:35:07
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Kai Olsen :
Funny enough, I used to think that statement was true until I little stopped caring that much and having confidence in myself and shocker you don’t need to be Calvin Klein you just need to be confident in yourself. I’ve had bar experiences in the past where I’ve been snickered at and literally blew them off next thing you know they want to talk to you. I found someone who is beyond GORGEOUS and she tells me one of the biggest reasons she was interested was because I was confident.
2026-02-26 16:18:25
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Jay :
She is right. Women date who they want. Men date who they can. But she missed the second part. Men MARRY who they want. Women marry who they can.
2026-03-05 08:59:08
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Angeline :
I’m way too shy and insecure in my appearance to approach anyone 😅 like I do flirt but it’s more a playful thing rather than it being serious, and the reason for that is what you mentioned: fear.
2026-02-26 16:47:01
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Stalker Hocine :
I don't want to fool around or be with someone that does
2026-02-26 15:38:05
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Ed Foychuk :
Women go for who they want… because many of them have a line up of guys trying. Not because they’re more willing to risk rejection.
2026-02-26 15:36:52
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DonnyLux :
It actually doesn’t hurt me that much anymore. I end up getting more proud/happy for myself for having the courage to do it in the first place. They’re like exercise reps to me now
2026-03-04 04:53:43
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chris :
I got so used to rejection I reject myself
2026-04-03 01:39:51
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