I texted the guy I was dating...was just thinking about you and it made me smile...thought I would tell you instead of keeping it to myself. he replied hahaha, hope you had a good day. nope...not doing that.
2026-02-28 23:30:19
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It’s me, Dena :
After how many dates, can I state my needs?
2026-02-27 04:04:00
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Louise Bradbury :
You’re saving my dating life one TikTok at a time
2026-02-26 22:16:44
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busylane :
I told my now boyfriend on the second date that I would like it if he texted me a little more frequently, rather than every 24 + hours. He listened, and implemented it from that day on. To this day, he keeps this up.
2026-03-09 22:28:58
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alebritt :
Idk why we assume people or men in this case know what we want or our needs are. Starting that we are very changing and we are constantly shifting and growing (our superpower) … why also have to give grace and time for adjustments and learn to read us and get to know! It’s a bit stressful but we must trust time, it’ll tell.
2026-03-25 15:17:49
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Krista :
I've done this from day one with this man. Initially met him 6 months ago but timing and logistics didn't work. Reconnected two months ago and it's been great. Slow burn, steady guy.
2026-02-28 14:47:33
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🌸 britt 🇵🇷 🌸 :
Wow I just realized how I could have showed up a bit better w the last guy I was dating. I’m still glad I ended it yesterday. He never ever called me despite 3 months of dating and me asking twice.
2026-02-26 21:00:47
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noraslove44 :
Yeah I just did that when starting to date someone new and it’s been a gamechanger
2026-04-08 12:46:09
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Sola :
YESSS
2026-03-11 18:38:55
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Ammie🫧 :
I have a hard time communicating my needs, why ?
2026-02-28 03:49:27
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Stephanie Mahota :
Love this one
2026-04-17 02:01:23
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Mfimfigee :
why you dragging me😭
2026-02-27 05:45:58
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Pig the Pig :
Very helpful
2026-03-29 20:25:16
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Persia Leigh :
but how long do you wait to see if he responds before you should decide to stop dating him?
2026-02-27 03:00:15
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Heather :
Practicing this in real time today!
2026-02-26 20:25:11
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theregulationcoach :
Every word 👏🏼
2026-03-14 10:33:08
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Ranchology :
100% THIS.
2026-02-27 02:46:46
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Vanessa J :
Yess
2026-02-28 16:47:58
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rocketstilletos 🚀 :
I love this!
2026-04-17 01:01:19
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Thaise Q :
wow... that's perfect
2026-04-13 16:41:11
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Lydia EJ :
What's a great way to say thank you or show appreciation after they've done something for you? I find someone showing up for my in a great way, and so want to know how to communicate the gratitude and tap into his respect ego 🥰✨ xxx
2026-02-26 20:42:43
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Chris Claire :
Gooooooodness! These algorithms-you’re telling us to lead and then in the next video another person is saying “let him lead” for the love of Aphrodite! It’s so damn confusing. I’m just gonna be my funny ass self and if he doesn’t like it- bye!
2026-03-09 14:49:17
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wahoojess :
And here we are… still doing everything and learning how to get them to step up. Why can’t they step up and learn for us too?
2026-04-06 17:15:48
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Mimi :
If a guy don’t plan the first date and takes initiative without me telling him then he is not for me!
2026-03-21 00:09:50
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Gaby M. Koe✨ :
Queen knows everything starts from her, she inspires a man. That's true feminine energy ✌️💯
2026-02-27 07:11:24
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