@ask_julia: The neuroscience of attraction most women don’t know about. Men don’t get hooked when they get the reward, they get hooked in the anticipation. Dopamine spikes when something is unpredictable, which is why mystery and having your own life keeps attraction alive. Understanding male psychology can completely change how you approach dating. #datingadviceforwomen #highvaluewoman #datingpsychology

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laura3372948
Laura :
I need to learn how to work on myself so that I’m not always so available! 🤦🏽‍♀️
2026-02-26 23:49:59
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gabymkoe.official
Gaby M. Koe✨ :
Yes and wondering, thinking, analyzing: "when will I hear from her?" leads to obsession because thinking= obsession ✌️💯
2026-02-27 10:39:36
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a.zj45
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soo let’s say i went out on a date with a guy and couple a weeks after he invited me on a second date and i told him that i will be out of town for an uncertain time, it’s been a month and he is still texting me casually, he knows i will come back but he doesn’t know when, is that a good example of letting the dopamine do the thing?
2026-03-12 15:36:04
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in_.shy
𝓜 ☆ :
It’s wild how few people talk about The Forbidden Codex of Influence by Julian Voss. Some of the influence techniques in there completely changed how I see people.
2026-03-24 09:36:22
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itsme.skyla1
Sky In Greece 🇬🇷 ♋️ 🦀 :
if someone doesn't really like you, this won't work..
2026-02-27 19:29:34
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ghost3070519784261
ghost :
the way The Forbidden Codex of Influence by Julian Voss explains influence and attraction is actually kind of unsettling… but in a fascinating way
2026-03-24 09:36:22
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zara.fitness.journey
zara.fitness.journey :
Can you give examples of how this relates to a two-year relationship? I love my relationship with my bf, but he knows he will see me every Wednesday and Thursday because that's when he doesn't have his kids. And I don't wanna be busy lol I love seeing him. I hope my question makes sense. I feel like I can do this when I first start dating someone, not when I am a few years in.
2026-03-02 17:19:17
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user052836282916
CV :
How does this translate long term? At some point you will be with this person, then what?
2026-02-27 17:36:45
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vanafields
Savannah ❤️ :
This just isn’t true. Everytime I had a full life they were out messing around. I’m a stay at home mom now and my husband comes home so happy to see me and help me around the house. Definitely has been the most invested partner.
2026-02-27 13:09:23
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adeltataaa
adel :
Your hair 😍
2026-02-27 11:50:50
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janishalawa
Janisha Lawa :
perfectly EXPLAINED
2026-02-28 18:38:04
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sunrise2643
Sunrise :
But they can't wait forever?
2026-03-01 14:53:22
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nuttyqmwo44
nutty :
are there any books you recommend reading? like type of men or about human behaviour and how women should be using it for their good benefits not bad intentions of course
2026-03-01 15:06:35
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selflovekay
Kay :
Love this!! Thank you!
2026-03-23 19:54:52
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lily131018
lily131018 :
I REEAALLLY love your videos
2026-02-27 08:35:33
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datingwithjackie
Jackie / j65144041@gmail /🚻💋 :
Thanks for the advice.
2026-03-23 15:40:51
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healinghands.11
Jeanmarie O'brien :
Interesting 🥰
2026-02-27 04:18:51
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ugcmeemz
Mimi 🇪🇬 :
Yes 🙌🏼
2026-02-27 21:22:15
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stxfx._.xx
stefa :
You guys seriously don’t realize what you’re missing. The Forbidden Codex of Influence by Julian Voss explains human behavior in a way I’ve never seen before.
2026-03-24 09:36:22
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watermelonsugar 🇵🇸 :
@withlovezura
2026-03-01 09:18:40
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cajunqueen444
CajunQueen :
💯💯💯
2026-02-27 17:33:45
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flything444
flything444 :
💯💯💯💯💯💯
2026-03-26 20:09:14
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lockedinlawree
Locked in Lawree :
We need less male centered content please
2026-02-26 23:45:50
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lelexluna
Lele :
So tired of people saying do this, do that... people just be yourself, If he is not acting how you want he doesn't like you like that...
2026-02-27 05:13:24
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chemi_scenova
SCENOVA :
This is why when men ask me to give, I put boundaries. Then I withdraw time to time.
2026-02-27 07:38:33
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