why would I change my delivery for todd? bc who is todd??
2026-02-27 14:10:56
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lala :
it really depends .. i’m quick to check somebody tone idccc
2026-02-27 16:55:16
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emily :
especially as a black woman! like yes i’m ANGRY and im going to talk to you like I am tf.
2026-02-27 12:34:25
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shaywilliamsss :
I make sure to speak with to people with respect. You don’t talk to nobody any kind of way. A lot of ppl miss important messages simply because the person delivering it, is misrepresenting the message with their time and choice of words. You can’t control how someone else feels or hears you. Self reflect, adjust, but definitely stay firm because everything isn’t cupcakes and rainbows
2026-03-01 06:18:00
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CHIFLUENCER :
Right bc tuhhhhhh
2026-02-27 13:26:19
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LivingWith T&J :
As soon as they put more emphasis on the way I’m saying something versus what I’m saying when I’m talking normally,conversation over. I don’t talk to adults with a huge smile and holding your hand.
2026-02-27 13:57:51
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beaulovemaggiebaby :
QUEEN I NEED YOUR GLASSES ( I hope I don’t sound tone deaf I hear you😭🫶🏾)
2026-02-27 12:28:14
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Joshua McCoy :
I think it depends on when they call out the tone too. if the first response is about my tone, its deflection. if they listen first then we talk about tone ill handle that better. Also a lot of people don't get how black people communicate lol
2026-02-27 17:06:42
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Mudia🦇💜 :
They only tone police because they know they’re dead wrong
2026-02-28 06:53:40
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tootabellxo :
I love your POV. I feel there can be two truths at once. Tell ppl the truth but I try to remember if you wouldn’t want someone to talk AT you don’t do it. It def varies!🤏🏾🤏🏾🤏🏾
2026-03-01 00:45:25
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Tiffany.XoXo :
I be like you think that was bad, watch this! 😂
2026-03-01 10:05:02
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Cityy | CARROT :
I absolutely love the glasses! I completely agree with you. Last night, I began reading a book called “The Courage to Be Disliked,” and it’s gradually transforming my perspective on various aspects of life. I believe you would also find this book intriguing, but I must reiterate that I wholeheartedly agree with you. Once someone comments on my tone, I often respond with, Hold on, wait a minute. Are you getting what I’m saying though?
2026-02-27 22:44:58
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alexisinanna :
exactly. i said it that way because that’s the way it needs to be heard.
2026-02-27 13:54:26
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kayy6561 :
Where’s the glasses frommmmm???????
2026-03-02 10:17:30
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rennthestylist :
Drop the makeup tutorial sistaa
2026-02-27 17:45:34
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ken 🧚🏽 :
no shade
2026-03-01 18:43:49
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caitlynag :
When they say take the base out yr voice…… now im mad
2026-02-27 17:54:37
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✡️❤️ :
THIS🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️‼️‼️‼️
2026-02-27 14:09:51
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katherinekier :
I agree. Also people assume that the fluff is honest, when it’s completely fake 99.9% of the time.
2026-02-27 19:00:20
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Tenaisha Jenea♡ :
The makeup 😍😍
2026-02-27 17:49:26
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Tionna M. :
Helloooooo!
2026-02-27 15:23:36
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“xi” :
i swear
2026-02-27 16:57:56
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Chance The Chef Chicago :
This woman fine && smart 🥰🔥
2026-02-27 15:15:20
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Jay🫶🏽💕 :
bc I said what I said
2026-02-27 15:30:59
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E :
THIS! Especially as a close friend! No im not bout to fluff and coddle you.
2026-02-27 15:39:58
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