@gilmore_ctrl: It hurts talking you | #avoidant #avoidants #anxiousattachment #fyp

werqaxxy :

anxious attachment..

mari :

and i’m the anxious attachment

￴ ￴ ￴ ￴ ￴ ￴ ￴ ￴￴ ￴ ￴ ￴ ￴ ￴ :

for me loving an avoidant person isn’t for the weak. It takes patience, understanding, and a strong heart. They’re not cold—they’re just scared. Scared to get comfortable, scared to commit, scared to feel the same pain again. They love you, they care about you, but sometimes they don’t know how to show it. As an anxious person, I know how hard that is. We overthink. We need reassurance. We crave closeness. Loving someone avoidant while being anxious feels like loving someone who speaks a different emotional language. But we stay. We try. We choose to understand. If you’re anxious like me, be strong. Hindi madali, pero hindi impossible. Trust the process, diba? Just don’t forget—being strong also means protecting your own heart.

h3artbr0ken :

oh i’m not hungry.

ﾒ𝟶ᥫ᭡ :

I have both😭

. :

to my avoidant denden, I won’t beg this time. Not because I stopped caring, but because I’m starting to understand that love shouldn’t feel like I have to keep proving I’m worth staying for. I see you. Even in your silence. I notice how you disappear when things get overwhelming, how you choose distance over confrontation. And I’ve tried, I really did, to meet you where you are without losing myself in the process. But loving you quietly has been the loudest pain I’ve ever felt. I kept telling myself na “intindihin mo s’ya, gan’to lang talaga siya” while slowly, ako naman yung nauubos. I stayed patient, I stayed soft, even when I felt ignored, even when I felt like I was the only one holding on. And maybe you’ll never fully realize how much I chose you in moments where it would’ve been easier to walk away. I don’t hate you. I don’t blame you. But I’m finally accepting that I can’t be the only one fighting for something that’s supposed to be ours. I hope you understand that I didn’t leave because I stopped loving you. I stepped back because I had to start choosing myself too. And if one day you learn how to stay, I hope you remember someone once loved you this gently, this patiently, this real. But for now, I’m letting go of the version of you that only exists when it’s convenient. Still soft, just not losing myself anymore.

A :

I just want to be a good friend to her man.

g :

im not hungry, thankyou.

ember jene 💗 :

can’t repost my boyfriends watching 🫩

￴ ￴￴ :

Literally us omg

Kylie :

I’m both put together

dei :

put this on her fyp not mine bro 🤙🏻🤙🏻🤙🏻

unk :

can’t even go on this account anymore bruh

Ronald1976 :

They are me

𝕿𝖎𝖒𝖊𝖇𝖔𝖒𝖇 :

movie name?

kissa :

𝐙𝐞𝐤𝐞 :

what does this mean

Catharsis :

The attachment pattern here feels familiar without being oversimplified. It names the loop people often notice before they know how to explain it.

مىلور :

he is an avoidant and i let him go ,if he want to he will do it for you… and now he turned me into an avoidant too…

☆𝕽𝖎𝖆★ :

LL