xoxo, cj •relationship burnout
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michael..combe :
when you change and become emotionally safe, their nervous system is not wired to that new version of who you are, you have to be patient! you have to stay grounded and stable within yourself always
2026-03-02 02:24:28
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FRZN :
I messed up, and she’s burnt out. I’m really trying to be the best version of myself again, for her. I’m getting help, I want to work thru this with her. I’m trying to be patient, I love her more than anything.
2026-03-03 22:08:04
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noltzzz :
We were together for almost 10 years, 2 kids, a house, were engaged, everything. Unfortunately I made several mistakes and it became too emotionally unsafe for her and she left. That was 5 months ago. I’ve done a lot of self-work, and she’s even pointed it out a few times. We got dinner this past week and it felt so good to be in the presence of her, without it being kid-focused. I’m trying to do this in the most intentional way and healthiest way possible, because she is who I want.
2026-02-28 23:07:44
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clefairy36_ :
He felt like we always did what I wanted and he put 100% and I put 40% and that whatever we would have talks that I would overreact or get overly upset and he would have to apologize and then I would get upset like so many times throughout the day It’s been a month since he said he wanted a break. He said he doesn’t wanna get back together right now he’s trying to heal from me and not resent me as much. He wants me to change and he said if he can see me change not over react or shut down during conversations, calm, or be more in control my emotions be less selfish. I didn’t know he felt like this because he didn’t wanna tell me because he didn’t want to cause a problem and have me get upset.
2026-05-18 22:59:53
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Blondie☀️💛 :
If we have broken up how do i get the opportunity to show him this new side of me?
2026-04-08 21:39:28
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Jordan Taylor :
how to navigate things when their answer to questions trying to help and understand always end up in "i dont know "?
2026-03-01 02:30:24
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Cody Harper :
1st I cant thank you enough for replying she said its like a switch flipped iv been doing all the work and trying its not an easy road for the weak its been almost a year of trying to prove myself.
2026-02-28 21:03:35
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InvalidUser :
she told me she wasnt coming home until I left. I left the next morning without a fight. it's been a week and a half, feels like years. we still talk everyday. I feel like it's a waiting game that I won't win
2026-03-31 21:22:06
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Jacob :
I want to become an emotionally safe husband... I wasnt in my past and with God and lots of reflection ive realized and learned a lot. I want to be emotionally safe so she can slowly start leaning on me again and praying and seeing if we come back together. if its Gods will. but I have lots of work to do first
2026-02-28 23:32:43
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taylor :
I am working at this and have seriously changed my ways. She has a guy best friend/co-worker who is the one that made her really question our marriage and has showed her this emotional safeness, can my emotionally safe changes draw her back into me rather than her find it outside of the marriage?
2026-03-02 23:22:14
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Carson :
I texted them after 2 weeks of breakup about something that happened to them and they responded and said thank you and asked me a question about my life and also acknowledged about stuff I was doing for myself that was good and they were excited about that. And then said I had a kind soul and sent me a tiktok about how they see my soul. What does this mean😭 they keep liking videos about how a man should be and I keep wondering if they're for me.
2026-03-01 03:57:53
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MrMondayNights :
You have opened my eyes so big . Thank you
2026-03-09 12:55:17
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Dan :
How long do I leave it till I try contact her? I wanna respect her decision and leave her be but I don’t wanna not show her I don’t care cause I know I do and I would rather her know I, here for when and if she wants to talk
2026-05-26 06:02:40
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Ashley :
I’ve sent a lot of your videos to my husband. I filed for legal separation this week. There’s no timeline on any of this, his healing, my healing, etc., and he has said before he “can’t do this for a year” and idk how to feel about that. Feels like pressure on me to “come around.”
2026-04-23 19:26:11
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Kelly :
he would never do all that. he only says he wants us back. he means he wants me back to miserable.
2026-02-28 22:43:10
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B007 :
soujds like your talking about real love. the compassionate, empathetic and understanding love..
2026-05-15 13:09:15
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Doingme :
Learning this. Haven’t mastered it yet, but much better. Praising God for this lesson
2026-02-28 23:30:00
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kai✝️ :
Thank you! You made understand her better and I will use this to win her back!
2026-04-25 03:33:40
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username..8008s :
You Make great videos, keep it up. I’ve been having my own relationship issues where my partner is withdrawing and asking for two months of space due to my own selfish actions. Even though I’ve been trying to do better before and after my mistake and attempting to make it right. Your videos popped up right at the cusp of my situation and they’ve been very helpful. Thank you.
2026-04-09 20:26:53
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Eskil Schilling :
This is so important and helpful. Hope I get a chance to show that.
2026-03-29 10:01:42
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serena :
But he won’t give me the opportunity because he won’t reply to me it’s been two weeks
2026-03-23 05:26:36
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midtownmisfit2026 :
Reflect what they say, validate their feelings then be consistent and intentional with your actions. The emotional safety they feel is the most important thing in being able to work through just about anything. Also, don’t try to be a fixer.
2026-03-02 10:02:42
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Todd_B14 :
I want to be there for her. Being intentional.
2026-04-03 12:46:00
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jade :
yes but what if he's gone and we cant talk anymore?
2026-03-02 19:27:57
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Adoria :
My husband is the burned out one, we are temporarily separated, he says he may have fallen out of love with me, but he’s not sure. I still love him 100%, I tell him every time I see him, he says “thank you”. We are working on reconnecting. I’m wondering if I should stop saying it? I don’t want to overwhelm him, or push him away.
2026-04-23 15:20:52
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