@teaguzzles: Replying to @Vinny in the street this is not “long term partner” advice this is initial attraction advice #charisma #single #highvalueman

AppleSauce :

Charisma = extrovert, outgoing, confident, talkative. So introverts or shy people are just out?

jake :

Charisma definitely helps but you need to meet women’s threshold for physical attraction first

Jash :

If your naturally socially anxious shy or awkward as a guy then its so over

. :

You're spot on. Guys are quick to say you have to be tall, but I know a short guy who's pulled some dime pieces just because they loved his personality.And looks wise, he's pretty average. But he is super confident and funny, and that shit is like catnip for women.

yvie ! :

I literally have no type, I've dated guys under 5'5 and over 6'5, gym bros and fat guys, my age and older, rich and poor . the one thing they've had in common?? THEY WERE CHARISMATIC AND NICE TO BE AROUND

I hate tiktok :

Nah it’s attractiveness- charisma means next to nothing

lolplayer312 :

Well, but if you have great grooming routine for yourself, are relatively tall 180cm, lean (15% bodyfat) and seem nice (smile and be OUTGOING) these are first…. Then the charisma comes. Now if you argue these things are charisma then you are arguing in bad faith

Fickle Pickle :

I think it's a lot more complicated than this. plenty of people are very charismatic and still don't pull. plenty of people are not charismatic and pull. it doesn't matter how charismatic you are if you don't get opportunities to display that charisma, and I think the single biggest issue for dating rn is that people aren't getting a chance, they're not even getting an opportunity,

Glass.House :

I have autism

millizzz :

Eh I would say it’s social status rather than charisma.

ⓗⓒⓗⓐⓡⓛⓞⓣⓣⓔ :

Yes like I love playful banter sm and most guys are just staring at me dumbfounded after I'd tease them just slightly. I promise charisma and making your woman laugh is half of the success

Bravo :

The problem is that charisma is primarily built up from your formative experiences when you are a child. if you're in your twenties or 30s, you can't get charisma. there's no life experiences that'll give it to you, you can't get it from therapy. you can't get it from a book. it's either you have it by that point or you don't. and there's nothing you can do about it

h4tikvah :

Thewash :

Yes, but there’s actually more. You need to have or portray the following traits: confidence, competence, leadership, status, ability to evoke emotions.

Vinny in the street :

thanks for answering! No disagreement here. There is 'that' guy who is a 6 in the restaurant or bar who is sitting with the 10, and they are engaging with each other. 💯 that dude is funny, charming, and people want to be his friend. He's also not blaming "females" for his loneliness.

Matt :

Need to be 6ft

user2061828755237 :

Charisma is a ridiculously difficult skill to develop intentionally. I know, because I was born with zero rizz. After years and years of hard work, I now have 3 Riz. Some of us just naturally suck to be around.

llano :

Charisma is largely genetic also tho. I have autism

Karla-Fashion and Beauty Inspo :

i dont think so... thats what the patriachy wants to make us believe (that looks matter less for men/ that only men are visual)... not falling for it

🗽 :

Jeremy Meeks sure had great charisma

phaseone10841 :

thank you for acknowledging that emotional intelligence isn't what initially creates attraction. there's so much gaslighting around that

Rice :

don’t know, charisma is just too subjective

JayBoss :

I'm so cooked