I want to reiterate and say that I do not think you are intentionally transphobic. I just think your reasoning is.. not the best. :-) You are entitled to your own preferences in dating and intimacy! I don’t mean to dictate that or tell you how to feel at all.
2026-03-01 21:02:48
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taro :
I think you could've worded this better but anyway
2026-05-21 21:34:09
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~ 🎸💀 ~ MǎŞøN 💀🎸 ~ :
as a trans guy i get that!!
2026-03-06 16:20:12
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Emper'ay Fee'mboey VII :
I am exactly the same and I get the same comments
2026-03-01 17:47:45
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LIAMLIAMLIAMSPAMMM :
As a trans guy that’s completely understandable, everyone has their own preferences it’s okay,
2026-05-17 19:43:21
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Alex :
I'm a trans girl and think I could date a trans guy. But at the same time I like the male part a lot... So idk
2026-03-08 21:46:59
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kole :
valid
2026-03-02 13:33:52
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Jamie :
icon tbh
2026-03-04 04:49:31
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samuel 🏳️⚧️ :
I understand the preference but I also feel like it's a bit off-putting. If you're doing it with a cis guy you use his butt and trans guys have butts too lol. You aren't forced to do it in a trans guys puss. Additionally, trans guys can have bottom surgery to have a D, but even I personally don't prefer that so I understand that. At the end of the day, if you don't like trans guys you don't have to. I have to say that I just think there's definitely a little bit of internalized transphobia to it though, because it's beyond "I just like D," as it interferes with romantic attraction too. I also feel like it's a bit dehumanizing as well. And I don't understand you saying you would sleep with a trans guy, but not date one. I would imagine genital preference would play a role in sleeping with someone? As a trans guy who's a fan of yours, it's a little depressing hearing this. Just because I also think, "So am I not in the target audience for Kaiyo's erotic content? Does he appreciate me as a fan consuming his erotic content?" Obviously, being a trans guy doesn't matter if I'm consuming content of yours that isn't erotic, so I'm specifying on erotic content particularly. Sorry if I'm completely wrong and totally reaching! Too many cis gay men don't like trans men because they don't really see them as men, or see them in an entirely different category like "real men" vs "trans men".
2026-03-01 20:38:34
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Kentaurus :
I get the exact comments when I said that.
2026-03-03 14:54:08
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⚛️Funky_Junky🤤 :
As a gay trans guy your totally valid if a cis man didn’t want to date me cause I was trans I might be a bit sad or upset but I get it and I wouldn’t call them trans phobic
2026-03-15 18:54:49
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Eli Forbes :
I don’t really care about the whole debate all I can really say as a trans guy myself is that when I hear people say this, it just makes me feel very lonely. The only time I feel accepted in a relationship is when it’s with another trans person because they don’t worry about what parts I have
2026-06-01 03:21:24
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gaevy :
Nah I’m a trans man and I agree with you, I can’t have a relationship without it 💁
2026-05-10 20:28:30
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Miles :
No you are completely valid, Straight men are allowed to not like D, just as gay men are allowed to not like P, Trans men ARE men, but it doesn’t change that they have a P, or D. Not having a D does not make trans men any less of a man, it just means they don’t have a D, and having a D is often a requirement for gay men, just like having a P is often a requirement for straight men
2026-03-02 06:08:12
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sicko/spencer ⚢ :
im a lesbian with a similar preference but the way you worded this seems to be attracting people with transphobic beliefs im afraid
2026-03-01 22:30:07
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Tal :
I'm a trans man and if you're offended by this ... grow up LOL genital preferences are morally neutral. if you don't have them, great for you. it's not transphobic to say you'd rather date someone that you're more physically compatible with. I personally wouldn't want to date someone who isn't into all of me.
2026-03-02 17:44:35
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JDub The Gaymer :
I feel weird because I like the D but I won’t date a trans-woman because I don’t date women. Even if they have a D. Trans-women are women. 🤷🏻♂️
2026-03-01 18:01:32
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peanut.xXx.butter :
Im sorry but the way u said u would sleep with a trans guy but not date one is so weird to me
2026-06-13 13:23:17
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Show Time ! ✨ :
And what if they have the genitalia ?
2026-03-04 06:39:25
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Supposed Undyne :
Now.. what if the trans man HAD bottom surgery…??
2026-03-22 02:43:33
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Eike :
Valid preference, horrible way to say it
2026-03-03 08:58:04
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🏳️🌈Rowan🏳️⚧️ :
You realize trans guy can get bottom surgery, right?
2026-04-28 16:51:46
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ᴶᵃᶜᵏᵉᵈ ˡᵘⁿᵃᵗⁱᶜ :
Wait so your gæy? i repect your uh idk whats that called but im confused..
2026-03-02 09:17:45
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Toast❤️🤍 :
I sorta get it I’m not transphobic but I like 🍆 I mean I have trans masc friends but it’s a preference I like 🍆 like why don’t we get on people for race preferences 😭
2026-03-02 13:54:39
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