@mackenzieherman: AcCoUnTaBiLiTy?!? No but for real, when an avoidant gets this text, they freak out #avoidant

L :

Avoidants being asked to care and communicate to someone they “love”:

⃟ :

"can you respond to me quicker?" im gonna never respond to you again out of pure spite

Yamaitte :

Don’t hesitate in sending this. If your relationship can be destroyed by this, it’s not worth keeping.

✨️Bambina✨️ :

We created a word for immature behaviour 😅

€£¥ :

ASPYN ⚸ :

anxious attachments making everyone and their dog feel guilty when you tell them texting 24/7 every second of every day is literally unhealthy and causes co-dependency

user280740 :

And then I gotta explain how texting all day does not equal a successful relationship 💀

cyberpunkmingi :

god forbid im a little busy sometimes

Mama A :

Then the avoidant breaks up with you. Lol

That damned Eloïse 🐞 :

“You’re always sleeping” ITS FOUR AM. OFCOURSE IM SLEEPING.

mari⧗ᗢ :

avoid ants when it's time to show that they care about their partner

akareb :

I’m in enemy territory

darthmeferys :

but this literally triggers my fight or flight 💀 like hell naw I ain't gonna talk just cuz you wanna how dare you

datasiren :

I don’t think I’m full blown avoidant, but I clearly explain that I need some space and then get a message like that. I am just unheard. 😭

lyrie🪽💗 :

“can we ft” so i’m blocking you

🔛🔝 :

NO WE CANNOT TALK

Ascane :

Then they ghost you for 5 days and come back like nothing happened

D🌀 :

“Hey u still there?” No go away

✮M4YB3AR✮ :

i could be in a fantastic mood and the second i see that text, im pissed

shelbyllail :

at 9:39pm, i’m going to bed. that’s a tomorrow problem

Mari 👩🏻‍⚕️🌈 :

I’m not avoidant and that text sounds so annoying to me 😅

emma mae 🦇🧛🏻‍♀️ :

oh yes i’m a bad person because i don’t wanna text 24/7 and i communicate that to my partner

giadaaleia :

yeah, so… don‘t send this text guys

basia :

I usually respond to that in 2-3 business days

ireneferrari00000000 :

i said multiple times to one of my friend that i need space to breathe and i don’t like having an INFINITE CONVERSATION WITH HIM…obv he continues to do even if i explain it to him😭😭😭😭😭😭😭