@making_senseofit_w.katt: You cannot compete with a narrative you did not create. When someone rewrites your history or reduces your entire relationship to a distorted story, the instinct is to defend every detail. But arguing inside a script that was written without you only pulls you deeper into it. This video is about stepping out of the rewrite, protecting your dignity, and understanding that your worth is not determined by whether someone believes a version of you that was never true. #fyp #relationships #relationships #estranged #compete
almost 6 yrs on im ok being the bad guy i will not defend myself its not worth it,from this point in time at 64yrs of age im just going too live as happily as I can going forward
2026-03-02 12:14:59
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HSDallas :
I needed to hear that … still very difficult … very very difficult.
2026-03-02 09:08:22
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N B :
Listening to this makes me think…. If this is happening to so many moms, then it’s a cultural influence, not me, not just my kids. Basically, our kids have been brain washed. So please let’s find solutions with a core issue and not just giving up and walking away. Maybe we can save the next generation. Moms are never healed from a wound a child cause. That is the fact. But we can redirect our emotions and thoughts so it’s less painful.
2026-03-06 16:09:54
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TK 🇨🇦 :
Yes! In the beginning when you're sending text, no matter what you say, they will read it as a negative text. They will never take it for what it was and twisted it to their narrative.
2026-03-02 18:35:09
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Bella :
The price of being my kids mom is just too expensive. My unconditional love will never be enough. I’m no longer showing up in any way. They don’t deserve my authentic self! I’m done!!
2026-03-02 22:58:08
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BOOTSTRAPBLOOMS :
I have not showed up. I am saving this video- this is incredibly true. Everything you are saying in these videos- I am living. How do you know all this to a T? What there something on TikTok that is a script for them to follow to go no contact? This is so bizarre!!!
2026-03-03 18:54:51
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Remmeg :
their experience of their childhood is valid. they aren't rewriting history, they're telling you how it felt to them. 2 truths can exist. but understanding how they felt and how they experienced the memories you had will help you understand what theyre struggling with
2026-04-15 08:55:04
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user79863113376173 :
CORRECTO!!!!I 🥰
2026-03-02 15:28:38
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Debbie Lu :
Thank you! I needed to hear this today.
2026-03-04 13:08:54
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user4737883336139 :
Yes. Thank you. Please keep speaking the truth
2026-03-02 15:45:39
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applepie2460 :
I know I messed up and I do not blame my child
2026-04-12 17:16:51
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AmandaG :
I'm nearly 5 years on and haven't defended the less since the first day. There's no point, it'll always be my fault
2026-03-03 16:47:57
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user9426090847131 :
Spot on. This is exactly what we’re dealing with right now.
2026-03-03 22:14:47
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Jenny :
Correct
2026-03-03 05:57:46
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Magic Touch Piano Studio :
Thank you for all you do ❤️you have helped me so much and I know you are helping many more . ❤️❤️❤️
2026-03-03 02:49:32
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A Big B :
I am going through this right now! Finally understand and moving on even though it is incredibly HARD! 😪
2026-03-14 00:36:12
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Iulia :
Mulțumesc,total de acord!
🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
2026-03-15 12:22:49
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Keri | Nurse | Beekeeper :
Yes!!!! 🙌 Especially in the beginning when you’re trying to figure it out!!! I wish someone would have explained this to me so I could have found the peace of moving on and giving her the space she asked for!
2026-03-02 15:52:36
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maibri2011 :
I refuse to compete with my in laws. It’s not a competition.
2026-03-04 06:30:43
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js :
My daughter's convinced I said she was a bad mother. I never said that, I wouldn't say that
2026-03-13 15:06:43
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Tariq Mahmood :
You are brilliant. Speak from the heart. Thanks so much !
2026-03-03 12:41:35
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chatbrat Gen ❌ :
I just sent this to my son and found out I was blocked I'm stunned
Hey, we are all going through it right now. I'm sorry if I triggered you. It's honestly not my intention ever or to guilt you.
I don't come across the way I mean to sometimes. I love you, I hope you forgive me and we can carry on. ❤️ I'd like to make plans with Nat and Ev for VR this month or early May and wondering if you guys are around or holidaying so I can work around it.
2026-04-06 22:32:20
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Happy_me1970 :
After 18 months and being to Hell. My advice is to be still, silent, quiet, just be you. They will learn and come back ❤️🙏
2026-04-08 07:13:48
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glendathegoodwitch4 :
💯 percent
2026-03-02 21:17:41
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