xoxo, cj •relationship burnout
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Monday 02 March 2026 14:12:00 GMT
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Famof4 :
Must admit, as the anxious attacher this is killing me. But I’m trying to detach from a specific outcome and just let it ride. And truly, the space feels more like “they’ll never come back” but I realise it’s a lesson for me to.
2026-03-02 23:30:39
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Carsyn Anthony :
How do you know that the space won’t cause them to just forget about you.
2026-03-05 11:33:19
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ᶻ 𝗓 𐰁 :
This is exactly what quiet burnout feels like. Quiet Core Reset by Talon Greer gave me practical steps to heal while still living my normal life. So grateful I found it
2026-04-15 20:33:16
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Ray Cortez :
But the question is while we give them space how do we manage the hell that we are going through?
2026-03-25 23:51:55
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jade :
how am I supposed to communicate with him when I'm not supposed to talk to him?
2026-03-03 16:14:21
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Frankie Costamagna :
Does this include it being a full on breakup and it was long distance? How can I respect that space but also reach out once to apologize and then go back to space?
2026-03-02 23:19:11
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shmeeker dinker :
So for 3 years, we had a very blissful relationship. I began to get really comfortable in life and wasn’t growing as a person while she was. There were no fights or anything, literally up to the DAY she broke things off, we were emotional towards each other and very loving. She didn’t seem like she wanted to break up, but once she made the decision she switched and seems very final about this being a break up with no contact. She wants to talk after a couple months and then do more no contact and then be friends. I haven’t broken no contact but this is so unbearable. I feel like this could’ve been avoided with communication, like if I knew where she was standing and if we could’ve had the talk and rebuilt our relationship. We ended on amazing terms, how sure is no contact to work for me to get her back?
2026-03-14 16:03:24
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Valeria🤍 :
How long is a normal time to wait? A month? Or more like 5 months?
2026-04-25 17:29:18
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user4259108768488 :
Hello CJ… how long should you give them space?
2026-04-29 01:11:04
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I-uddin :
but how is it fair for me to be left in a limbo of not knowing if we'll work. how can you tell me you care for me still hope we can work and then just act like we were never together. I always tried my best for her I always tried for her so why isn't she trying to make this work do we not deserve a 2nd chance
2026-04-10 23:58:29
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Seth Brown :
Thank you. This is helping me calm down and not spiral as much. What you’re saying resonates because every time I try and talk and say anything all I get back is a firm: go away.
2026-03-18 01:35:42
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Noa :
what if he finds someone else in the meantime.. I keep hoping but I'm scared he will not miss me
2026-03-04 23:02:35
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Mary Dundon trance queen :
how can you give space when you are in the same house with kids
2026-03-04 19:09:03
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GSXR1k :
I’m literally dealing with this and it is SOOOOOO hard to let go when all I want is to fight and try but she wants me to not talk about the relationship. Like it’s so redundant. I don’t want to lose my wife and marriage. But she doesn’t want me to talk about “Us” like I’m scared if I let go, then I let it fall apart with out trying to save it
2026-03-03 17:19:51
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poosa :
does checking up on him make him pull away too? I want to show consistency through assurances..is that okay?
2026-04-26 14:38:40
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Samantha Tiry :
But for how long?
2026-03-02 21:30:46
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Ginny Lawrence :
I asked for space and he thought it was the most ridiculous thing he had ever heard. “How can we work on our relationship if we’re not together”
2026-03-04 08:35:36
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KingDrew👑 :
Thank you so much
2026-03-07 05:11:00
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Jillian :
what does space mean, ie no contact or like very minimal contact only on their terms?
2026-03-30 05:15:34
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Annie Tercovich :
He broke up with me unexpectedly about a week and a half ago. 2 days after buying plane tickets for a vacation. I’m trying to give him space but it’s so hard. I’m scared he’s going to forget about me and move on with someone new, while I still love him so much. He did agree to “talk” in a month (my idea) but I don’t know if he is really going to take the time to think and process or he was just letting me down easy
2026-03-24 16:01:31
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K•N :
How do I give space when we live together and only have one bedroom?
2026-03-04 20:24:26
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Annie Tercovich :
Does space and time really help?
2026-03-24 16:01:44
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It’s me! :
Anyone have any suggestions on how to do this while we are still cohabiting and they’re ’not really, but kinda’ dating
2026-03-02 21:27:06
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Danielle :
We are in the same household. Functioning well as parents and we get along on the whole. Trying to respect the space but it’s so hard. Feels so unnatural. Trying to learn to just be his friend for now and we will either gravitate back together or part ways completely
2026-03-06 14:03:21
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