@jeremywontstop: You’re pleasing everybody but abandoning yourself

Elan :

Im so tired of keeping myself in this cycle 😩

ggoldylocs :

Me fr like im terrified of coming out

Black_Alchemist :

Damn bruh, I’m working on it. Give me time 😅. (Me at 40 🤦🏾‍♂️)

LelaRae💋 :

My tl been speaking too specifically to me lately!

Lia ✨ :

I saw this yesterday and you hit a nerve. I just deleted Chat GPT so I can sit with this uncomfortable decision of not seeking approval 💯

LadyVicky :

Ugh!! When will I stop doing this I’m SICK OF IT 😭😭😭😭😂😂

PhilJ1995 :

WHEW‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️

iam_Ldubb :

I’m literally moving to a new state and not telling anyone because I needed to detach and show that I’m an adult.

Doll :

Arika Smith :

Will do. Thank you! I need this more than anything! Didn't even realize my indecisiveness and people pleasing was tied together.

LB🤎 :

Oh.

Beyond No Contact :

These patterns are so difficult to step out of — you speak the truth💯 but these patterns can be unwound — took me 26 years but I finally got there. At 52, I met #relationaldeath and it was over.

Layshia 💜 :

Almost 30, learning to detach and not giving af

You_talking_bout_Tez :

the 42 year old me

🌸 :

YES!! i moved to a new city and realized i try to make everyone feel so comfortable with me or like im okay with everything. hell, sometimes i pay for a service (like botox) and it's still in me to want them to feel like im a good patient and improve their day. Girl Why??? They should be TRYING TO IMPRESS YOU!! i'm so good at givijg people what they want. been working for the past 6 months on trying to be more neutral😭

Xoxosteph_23 :

Omg 😩 who told you my business 🤣🤣🤣

PrettiiRedd💕 :

Lawdddd😮‍💨😭😭 ! Needed to hear this !! It’s hard ..

jackieeross4 :

omg ... this is me ... ugh

SevenRene | P1💊 :

Yup!!!! Learned this through therapy!

TAN :

😩 you’re talking to me

yo momma :

im finally getting out of this cycle

Kkennyyy :

wow

eirikr__noo :

Man if this ain’t me

_goooldie :

Omg why you in my head 🥺 I always tell. People I’m stuck at 13 but I’m 28 my daddy be fussing about letting my mom come to me instead of seeking her but I’m not friendly I’m quiet and observant people don’t like me they judge me thinking I’m boujie etc.

CamVlog :

Chill bro😂