I think I’m going through this myself with my partner as family friends reached out concerned about me where I’ve distanced myself and lost my spark. I love him and want to help him but my family think he’s not right for me. I’m torn between what to do, even though now I’ve reached out to him and he’s slowly making changes.
2026-07-01 12:31:37
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Dallas_I :
I just left. Not due to lack of love for him, but because my efforts to keep him stable made me lost. I no longer recognized myself. I had no more energy, stopped doing things I loved and realised slowly I no longer was happy, or even content, with my relationship and my life. Leaving hurt. It still does. This video alone made me cry horrible because each sentence hits home so much. I will always have love for him, but it was time for me to choose me over him. Because I stopped liking who I was becoming.
2026-03-08 09:51:12
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halosnhorses33 :
You speak so well on so many levels. Thank you.
2026-03-03 13:03:03
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sjo :
Loving them harder won't fix them.
That love will turn into labour.
It will turn into pain.
2026-03-03 13:06:58
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Stephanie Pilkauskas :
😞 I wish I was enough to help longer.. it hurts to know I have to walk away when I love him.. but I cant fix him when im breaking 😢
2026-03-13 18:18:52
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Dinar :
From the beginning we share about our childhood… so I see his wound and why he reacted the way he did. But nothing justify the pain he causes me, when all i did was loving him.
2026-03-04 22:53:46
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Birdie 🇿🇦 :
So very true.. U eventually lose yourself in the process
2026-03-04 12:25:39
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Holly Walsh🇺🇸 :
You cannot love someone into loving you
2026-04-06 05:53:57
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Jaclyn. Teacher. Poet. :
Then they turn the blame onto you. Goodbye
2026-03-05 01:26:17
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𖤐₳₴₳฿Ø︎VɆ₴Ø︎฿ɆⱠØ︎₩𖤐 :
He is me… I am him.. I’m tired boss 😔
2026-03-03 16:14:10
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𝓒𝓱𝓪𝓷𝓽𝓪𝓵 ♡𝓛𝓮𝓼𝓵𝓲𝓮 :
Allow people to be who they truly are and let them show up for you as they naturally do, then decide if that's enough for you💜
2026-03-20 06:21:43
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Magaba :
i did this for 7 years until i noticed that i was loosing myself then i walked away . i found peace
2026-03-05 12:50:31
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P :
“Impact doesn’t need intentions” 🔥🔥
2026-03-05 17:33:44
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Marleen :
Yup! A very hard lesson! Using love as an excuse to break your self! 💔 Been there done that.
2026-03-03 15:58:57
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iSewe™ :
fixing them is a waste of time
2026-03-04 12:16:30
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daliafatani0 :
The curse of being an empath that doesn’t know their own boundaries
2026-03-22 17:20:54
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Just Katie :
and it makes you feel burnt out x
2026-03-03 13:46:14
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Ruelocks :
you didn't even have to hold my hand. you straight went for my adges bro.
but thanks,am growing out of that habit..its not easy though cz I've lived as a firstborn, fixing everything.just say it i was there fixing having that saviour mentality unknowingly has crippled me in many ways.
letting go and not fixing people or just walking away from situations and people has been the greatest war in my life..i can see and feel the peace but it has come with feeling guilty and just 🤦♀️🤦♀️hard but its worth it.i hope my nervous system will finally adapt to the new me.the healthy me
2026-03-03 14:31:00
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Nazreen Akhtar :
The thing about humans is, we absolutely completely live in hope!
We even change or suppress ourself, or worse disappear in the process of waiting, in hope that people will change .OH NO! 😐
If your worth wasn't noticed, from the way you treat them and the atmosphere you create, within the relationship or friendship for them, then it's time to wake up!
People don't change because we hope, we can't change habits only voice them, then its upto them, to choose what to change!
Hoping is a compassionate quality in a person but a person, must recognise when the situation is beyond hope and choose, to further accept or not !🙏❤️
2026-03-04 07:17:19
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Judy Pilusa :
That's me right now
2026-05-27 00:09:10
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ramzus_god :
I think this is why I lost her
2026-04-22 12:56:03
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sofiapanagiotou11 :
That's how I lost myself....💯
2026-03-06 23:11:25
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Claudio M De Mendonça🇲🇿🇨🇦 :
💯%true
2026-04-09 01:10:33
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