@tiffchat: Don’t spend 40 min deciding what to watch. Pick anything and watch it 😂 Attention can be its own reward. PS I don’t know if I recommend How Should A Person Be, I don’t feel I can be responsible for another person reading such an alienating, fierce, arguably pretentious intentionally bizarre book, but I certainly got a lot out of it. #literature #figtreeanalogy #thoughtdaughter
how do you not have a million followers? such high quality content.
2026-03-04 06:38:03
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bigbear :
the price of becoming something is giving up your potential. and even if you dont choose something you give up your potential anyway
2026-03-05 02:15:18
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Bowen :
What is easy is not necessarily what you enjoy. Furthemore, it may be the case where one may not necessarily even enjoy their own passions. It’s not even easy to be oneself. I think many people are not defined by what comes easily and choose passions they are specifically maybe not the best or most talented at. Perhaps choosing something easy is better than not choosing at all but I doubt it’s an imperialistic choice.
2026-03-04 06:26:22
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Jonathan :
“Commitment has lessons to teach, that optionality never will” GIRL 👏👏👏👏👏
2026-03-06 22:35:49
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sensitivedaughter :
Sheila Heti fans RISE UP
2026-03-04 19:04:01
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srz :
former gifted kid who went to law school. 10/10 don’t recommend
2026-03-06 03:08:20
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⟡ arden ⟡ :
"The one you are given is the one to put a fence around" made me tear up 😭 If I could give a little compliment, have wanted to say I appreciate your pov. You’re clearly fluent in the frameworks of industry, but you still strike the chord like a liberal artist in it for the love of the game. Hope that makes sense. It's very relieving as someone without a fixed niche yet 😆
2026-03-04 09:27:44
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Clara :
you have no choice but to be yourself - only do what comes true and easy - commit to that which you really are
2026-03-16 22:23:05
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notwrench • friend :
I had those same thoughts after I hit certain goals. What's the point of starting if it's going to end at it will hurt? Interesting. Ecclesiastes also covers this
2026-03-04 11:08:24
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paupau :
real. i also refuse to settle for something adjacent to the thing i actually want. what i desire, i must chase!
2026-03-22 13:23:58
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Nicetry :
Gotta figure out what myself is first
2026-03-04 18:15:10
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$hwet@ :
sheila heti is so so good. I would love to hear ur thoughts re on motherhood! esp with the pro/antinatalist popping up in the culture
2026-03-05 11:25:29
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Alice • AI for Humans :
You are quickly becoming one of my favorite creators! So much provocation, nuance, and poetry...
2026-03-14 16:47:14
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hilbe6 :
It is such a relief! Both those books were so important to me. Wonderful thank you. If you make a video about Rilke and William Stafford I think you'll have covered all of the emotional and creative touch stones of my 20s lololol <3
2026-03-04 17:26:32
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Yel 🌱 :
pls post moreee of theseeee
2026-03-16 03:43:30
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specter0929 :
Law school is no longer viable; meet AGI
2026-03-05 14:45:45
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tinytomate :
oh
2026-03-04 21:06:39
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sarah london :
ok time for a re read 🥹
2026-03-06 00:55:15
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Daniel Hong :
Man so well said. Identity!
2026-03-06 19:56:05
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kush from BrainBank.world :
💯Motivation needs to be built on solid ground. It’s can’t be made out of thin air.
2026-04-20 01:22:22
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fish :
i love this thank you
2026-03-07 15:04:07
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Bars
2026-03-19 16:05:28
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user28477493847 :
i struggle with this a lot - how do i know when im choosing to embrace and choose myself or the continuation of this protectionist thing i learned early on
2026-03-04 21:08:22
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