@lanaisaaa: I get called selfish and lonely all the time, and i wish people would realize that’s really not the case #sololiving #solovlog #pov #livingalonediaries #cozyathome

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indie8421
Nicole D :
I think your videos help normalize that everyone’s’ life is their own. I was like this before I met my husband and had children. I don’t regret any of it. And I wouldn’t change anything about my current life. It’s how my life evolved and I’m happy. ♥️
2026-03-04 00:01:35
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syasin96
Yasin96 :
I wish you’d boycott Starbucks
2026-03-04 16:31:43
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aliciaking671
Alicia K :
I'm a 54yo widow. I enjoy your videos so much. I've started taking myself out like you do. 💕
2026-03-04 14:15:31
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avaisconfused4
Avaisconfused :
your vlogs have been inspiring me to do more by myself 😌 thank you for sharing Lana!
2026-03-04 13:25:16
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erikaanaya256
erikaanaya256 :
As someone who didn’t meet my husband until I was 32, got married at 34 and had my babies at 36 and 39… I remember how freeing it was to be single and child free. The life you’re living isn’t selfish at all. It’s beautiful. As is the life I live. And how everyone woman chooses to live. The beauty is in the freedom of choice.
2026-03-05 02:45:46
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maalikak
Maalika K :
Strange that so many people have opinions about someone they don’t actually know online
2026-03-04 00:11:18
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bleuminggarden
bleuming :
Girl you give me comfort. As someone who is trying to stop being a people pleaser, your content is a reminder that it is okay and it is not selfish to choose yourself.
2026-03-04 01:17:40
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willowdalee
willowdalee :
May be broke but having my own apartment and things is peace and peace is priceless, also I’m a only child so it’s nice
2026-03-04 01:03:34
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snowycapricat
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Marina mentioned
2026-04-16 11:12:26
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joeybrackenbury
joeybrackenbury :
Your videos have become my daily comfort watch 🥰 your life looks peaceful and full, it makes me feel calm
2026-03-04 00:07:20
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elies1989
Elies :
People who call you selfish and lonely are just jealous, they are in a toxic relationship or have kids, so they don't have a life like this.. But they wish they had 😌
2026-03-04 08:04:07
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lisamac3103
Lisa :
It is a personal choice. I can do what you do now my children are adults, but I still prefer spending time with them than anyone else. You said your mum is your bestie, imagine being a bestie to your own daughter or son one day, it’s a million times better. But you’re right, living with someone else’s moods and ways can be tricky, so I ditched their dad and kept them 🤣🤣 it’s peace at its very best 😁
2026-03-04 09:14:22
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tarasince87
tarasince87 :
For you to be treading on egg shells before, were you in a toxic relationship/friendship? Glad you have healed
2026-03-04 00:46:47
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tanya.johnny2
Tanya Johnny :
its not selfish. its how you decided you want YOUR life to be!
2026-03-03 23:52:16
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beccabitesback3
Becca Bites Back🇨🇦 :
As long as you are happy, that's all that matters. I think a lot of people are just pushing their own insecurities on to you. Keep living your best life Queen
2026-03-04 01:57:52
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hellohi072
Hello :
I’m 45 and choose this life too
2026-03-04 01:18:35
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quinnharley26
Harley Quinn :
Would be so nice if people would just mind their own business. Being alone is a choice and id rather be alone and peaceful than with someone who destroys that
2026-03-04 08:26:19
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lenete19
🫧 :
Can I just say i love your curly hair its sooooo pretty 🥺🥺and i love your videos your so peaceful and beautiful 😭😭😭❤️❤️
2026-03-04 00:01:19
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hdivufjub
user4016955757716 :
I think you should make a bts video of a bunch of clips of you scurrying back to grab the camera after you close your door or drive off lol.
2026-03-04 00:19:54
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n.cats1
N.cats :
You're just living your life. It's neither selfish nor lonely. I know it's filled with peace💚
2026-03-04 01:40:39
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marissasmother
sherrie :
the only person you need to make happy is yourself and good for you learning that young
2026-03-03 23:46:42
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agallardo99
agallardo99 :
Honest question, have you thought about adding a pet? Maybe a dog or a cat? I can understand if you haven’t bc you want your place to be clean and all that, and don’t feel like you need one
2026-03-15 13:58:06
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4fleurdelis4
fleur :
I’m happy for you that you’ve learned this early (it took me 55 yrs and retirement).
2026-03-08 21:57:47
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ashleygoforth2024
AshleyGoforth2024 :
Your not selfish sweetheart you love your privacy and your self you are doing a good job looking after your self
2026-04-17 05:16:16
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samanthanicole1523
Samantha Nicole :
I was honestly the happiest when it was just me in my own house with my fur babies. It was just so peaceful. Don’t let anyone tell you you’re missing out cuz you seem fulfilled to me
2026-03-06 04:58:35
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