Annika
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Wednesday 04 March 2026 01:09:19 GMT
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flavia :
its very hard when you were taught to be a people pleaser with a narcissistic mother 🫠 but am trying
2026-03-04 11:14:04
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Jester’s Privilege🧚🏻♀️ :
So after reading the comments here…were all us autistic girls just somehow born to narcissistic mothers who abused us into being people pleasers, or…?
2026-03-05 02:16:22
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onceuponanartist :
people are nicer when I'm mean and meaner when I'm nice istg
2026-03-05 19:48:59
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theartofgettingbi :
I grew up with other kids saying "You're so quiet and shy" and I would say "Maybe I just don't want to talk to YOU" (as a ten year old 😂)
2026-03-04 17:53:20
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EMILY PARR ✨🇨🇦 :
Being a diva is just so much easier for people to understand
2026-03-04 23:20:41
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sprylikeasloth :
ive hit 40 and finally gotten to this point. everyone has always hated me when I have always tried to be as accommodating to everyone around me and everyone hates me anyway.
2026-03-04 22:47:22
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sad girl :
ok but how do i deal w feeling rejected after i set the boundary lmao
2026-03-04 21:51:07
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Emily Esthela :
I’m a manager and one of my shift supervisors yesterday, and I had what she perceived to be an argument which was me just asking her questions about why she did something a certain way because I wanted to understand it
2026-03-04 14:30:53
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franciumstability :
I’ve been trying to ❤️how do you deal with the anxiety?
2026-03-04 05:39:36
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maryrebelle :
I always reply: I never said I was nice, usually people leave me alone after that😂
2026-03-04 09:51:35
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Lacie-belle :
Yes the amount of times I’ve had “you don’t look autistic.” Is that meant to be a twisted compliment?!
2026-03-04 13:36:19
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Audie 🇨🇦 :
perimenopause has been a goddamn BOON to my unmasking lemme tell ya
2026-03-04 20:11:36
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Ashleigh :
I need to learn this.
2026-03-04 05:26:38
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quickblondie♐️ :
ADHD women too. I’m DONE “toning it down” I was born with this 🔥for a REASON
2026-03-06 11:42:15
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stellastrange :
Facts!!! Only when I started actually standing up for myself instead of worrying about other people’s feelings (which turned out to be a front most of the time anyway because neurotypicals LOVE making autistic people feel inferior) did I stop feeling stressed and anxious all the time.
2026-03-04 16:20:32
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glitter-possum🦡💫 :
I'm KIND not NICE. big difference. I can make SOME small talk.
2026-03-06 19:48:33
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Laura ✨️ :
giiirrrlll ive started doing this and 🤯
2026-03-04 07:57:23
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🎵🎶Laura's Lambent Lair 🎶🎵 :
I lose people regardless. It's way more regulating to just be what they think I am anyway. 😂😂
2026-03-06 04:03:27
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Mapa 🇳🇴 :
Life got a lot easier when I stopped filtering my thoughts. Didn't have any friends before it, so no losses either
2026-03-05 23:36:24
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theonlyoneleft :
No one has been mean to me at all since I started doing this years ago. People treat me with respect, always, especially men. Turns out mean people are actually really really scared themselves 😀
2026-03-04 19:53:09
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Empath Parenting :
It's becoming harder and harder to mask now that I've realized how I'm still viewed as weird and robotic anyway, when I'm masking.
2026-03-05 22:19:57
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GreenBandit :
I act like one and then feel so sad, I am so soft and gentle inside. If I don’t, people take advantage of and exploit me constantly. I’m supposed to be a soft sweet person ;-;
2026-03-06 22:21:34
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Megan Sue 💛 :
gurrll thank youuuu
2026-03-21 04:18:23
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Danimkh :
this is how i have survived 🙂
2026-03-04 08:35:10
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