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C3ntipede :
yes, i think most hate themself only cause they know they can do much more better
2026-03-04 11:46:57
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Mason Prophet :
The idea of narcissism seems almost like it was painted in a certain way to make people afraid to love or invest in themselves. Or, even to learn about/explore themselves. Narcissism is rooted in insecurity/inferiority, not grandiosity. Being obsessed with yourself isn't a bad thing - being selfish, or inconsiderate, or lacking empathy/accountability/self-awareness/etc, is. It's almost like they wanted us to stay unaware of ourselves because "all of the answers are within yourself" - "the entire universe is inside you" - "we are one with everything". If you learn about yourself and understand yourself, it is too easy to understand/care for others, and to think for yourself. Then you become autonomous, and can harness your free will, and no longer believe the illusions of division or separation. Suddenly, you can't be manipulated, tricked, coerced, or even forced. If you are insecure, you will be too busy being defensive and paranoid that you aren't good enough, rather than connecting with others. You will view them as competition or people you need to prove yourself better than, and lose all ability to relate or desire to understand them - because to truly see them would mean to admit that they could possibly be better than you in one way or another. As everyone is different and unique in their strengths and abilities - this isn't a flaw, it is what makes us special and interesting and worth sharing ourselves with each other. It is what makes meeting and learning about others so enjoyable. If we don't obsess over ourselves in a way that allows us to fully express ourselves and our individuality, then we won't have as much personality or individuality to share with others. To know and love yourself, is the bridge to knowing and loving others.
2026-03-09 07:15:26
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Anthony :
I will not deny myself the potential God sees in me.
2026-03-07 12:08:04
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jonbutt1 :
To know is to understand……
2026-03-05 06:57:28
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King Sinbad :
Rather, there is alot of self hatred in narcissiim
2026-03-06 23:57:20
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Arachnophobia :
Maybe I expect more from myself because no matter what I do somebody’s disappointed. The bar rises. I fall. Narcissistic, maybe.
2026-03-07 19:45:58
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hey how are you doing today :
I hate myself bc i know i can do so much better. Idk why i don’t do anything
2026-03-05 23:42:05
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Blink187 :
Even if you think little of yourself, you are still thinking of yourself
2026-03-12 10:24:19
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Activilylosingit :
Two sides of the same coin guy
2026-03-07 17:21:09
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DespoEye :
Just because you think less of yourself, does not mean you think of yourself any less
2026-03-14 00:03:20
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vir.errans :
yes but i think better put it’s obsession of hate hate for one’s self
2026-03-04 11:02:31
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fa8tinehornet :
Yes, but it goes deeper than that. Narcissism in this instance is a defense mechanism that then causes self hatred. The defense mechanism is protecting against rejection, shame, and dislike by other people. So really the order is rejection → narcissism → self-hatred in psychological terms.
2026-03-10 15:43:41
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Based Brett :
Actually something Robert Greene talks about in the Laws of Human Nature. Liked that book 10x more than laws of power.
2026-03-10 13:42:34
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ethan :
i will be the best
2026-03-09 19:16:14
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attila1077 :
narcissism and self hatred has me pushing limits I didn’t even know I had, because I want to become better so much
2026-03-09 16:05:40
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J_C《¤Nightwing¤》 :
Oh soo thisss is why we made fight club☝️☝️
2026-03-08 22:00:13
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مير :
If I could identify why and how to fix it I would.
2026-03-04 23:16:50
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SuperYlli28 :
And vice versa
2026-03-07 00:21:56
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idk :
love david foster wallace
2026-03-04 23:28:29
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𝓛𝓾𝓵𝓾🎀💝 :
I kinda understand this take, I always hold myself to an impossible standard while never doing that to anyone else. It’s not that I believe everyone is necessarily better or worse then me but bc ik I can and NEED to do better (idk if that makes sense sorry ⁉️)
2026-07-09 13:41:39
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mo__60 :
yeah so im a narcissist who hates himself
2026-05-30 14:04:37
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rachel :
I know man I know
2026-03-12 16:43:56
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Ry :
Holy shit
2026-03-11 03:46:23
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mbanks93 :
One day I will be the greatest. I will hate every second of it.
2026-03-11 00:03:44
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:
Damn, ig im a narcissistic, but how can one ignore the fact that they know just how much better they can be. Not for js themselves but for others around them
2026-03-09 13:56:07
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