@azqhaidir: Part 176 - dont put people in debt for something that’s supposed to be a gift #yap #kindness #fyp

aqeesbalqees :

I'm being kind to you, not expecting you be kind back to me. But at least please don't be bad at me taking advantage just because I'm kind to you.

مَا شَاءَ ٱللَّٰهُ ꕤ :

i did do it out of kindness. What made me question is kenapa perlu gossip about me? kenapa perlu muka dua. when all i did was being kind

Pembaca :

I agree with your point to deatttach and to not expect reciprocation, Brother. However depreciating kindness is just a lack of accountability, it endorses desentisization to others’ feelings and may lead to an unkinder world, where we already are

a! :

im to kind to people but why i dont deserve the kindness back🙂

silly capybara :

there something what we call “common sense” in life. People being kind not asking for a return but because they have “common sense”. Dont bite the hand that feed you, easy.

4zm :

kind is me. dont forget what kind is made of steel of what man is rn by what we see and saw😉 spread

kai :

Kalau org buat baik tapi kita rasa berhutang budi dgn someone tu?

aisyahjumpaan :

Why won’t you be kind to everyone? I’m kind not because I expect anything, but it should be a trait everyone owns. Won’t world be a better place if everyone is kind? I expect kindness cause I believe everyone has it in them. Why choose be rude/treat people badly?

𝓐𝓻𝓲𝓪𝓷𝓪'𝓼 :

kindness is never a negotation. it's not 'take it or leave it'.

someone🍉 :

fine I'm being kind to people but i wouldn't expect for something back, i just hope and only hope people don't take advantages of it , i have my own life too.

ცɛƖƖą :

Yes, be kind and expect nothing in return. But is that an excuse for someone to be less kind to me just because I’m kind without expectations? Do I deserve to be treated that way just because I easily forgive? Does kindness make us easier to be treated badly? In the end, it’s about people’s hearts. Yes, I boleh jadi baik seikhlas hati, but at least cubalah jadi manusia yang ada hati dan akal. Ingat tak bahaya ke buat someone sakit hati dan terluka sebab kita? Sakit tau hmm 🫠💔

nik :

literally like my mom.. she always redha with everything, sometimes I selalu rasa macam in what point in life yang membuatkan dia rasa macam tak perlu mengharapkan balasan for everything she did. Because for me, untuk capai tahap keredhaan itu sangatlah susah. Ya Rahman, please make all of our mothers the women of paradise Amin.

Bonobono~ya :

I'm being kind because I choose too and I don't expect you to be kind to me but if I'm annoyed with you don't expect me to be kind to you like I used to. Plus I choose to put up with you and ik the consequences so if I don't treat you as I used too don't ask why 😌 I got boundaries.

Yizz :

orang tua selalu kata “buat baik kepada orang, manatau suatu hari nanti dia balas lebih”. Inilah menyebabkan kita jadi baik untuk dapatkan dikemudian hari. Tapi lately, sedar just be ur self jadi baik bukan nak harapkan balas tapi sebab kau nak tolong atas sebab kau melihat mampu dan tak perlukan balasan. Bro ni mengatakan kenyataan asas untuk menjadi baik. Kalau x boleh jadi baik xpe, diam je dan buat yang baik yang lain. Banyak benda lain boleh buat asalkan niat betul

maya 11A+ spm aamiin :

a reminder for me.

q :

It’s called reciprocity.

irfann :

amazing

awe :

okey saya faham

𝙝𝙯.𝙬𝙣 :

what if the take the kindness given for granted?

aakayyyyyy :

I get it, but when I explained that I was only being kind, they said they never asked for it. That really hurt me, especially since I never expected anything back from them.

Zylhia :

LOUUUUDER!

mputih :

Thanks bro for this

bella :

“The kindness will never go unnoticed.”

️kmal :

Alannnnn :

Thank you ! ✨