@antdsply: Why boundaries are essential after cheating: they rebuild safety, restore self-respect, and create the structure healing requires. Without boundaries, there is no trust repair. ❤️🩹 #boundaries #rebuilding #affairrecovery #infidelity #cheating
This is why you leave....what a nightmare having to do all these things. Going through this now but I am out....absolutely not living like this
2026-03-04 22:54:42
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Hannelie van Meersbergen :
I am really struggling. There is so many unanswered questions, he says he can’t remember. The affair lasted for over a year. I found out and then it ended. He said it did not end because I found out but that he wanted to end it. They still work together at the same company, but apparently they don’t even talk to each other. It feels like I will never get over this.
2026-03-14 05:56:50
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D. Widders :
Boundaries After Betrayal KEEP YOU SAFE 💯💯💯
2026-03-04 17:42:56
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Chloe 🩷 :
Do you have a video on finding out vs being told. If I didn’t catch him it would still be going on. But he’s cut her off completely and I have full access to his phone. He’s accountable and showing commitment but I’m hung up on that one thing
2026-03-04 22:07:09
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user668667718750 :
What if the person why caused the betrayal doesn’t want to fix it bc they don’t want to be accountable?
2026-03-07 00:51:59
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Ryanne.x :
Love to hear you guys’ advice. Glad to see your growth!
2026-04-22 11:17:36
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ashleyk2525 :
He will not give me any access to his phone or passwords. I don’t think he will ever change
2026-03-09 22:58:53
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Kelly Fox 🇬🇧 :
2 years past and the boundaries are there. Similar to you guys. Date night seems a good idea for us to relax and get our own time from the kids. I definitely feel disconnected from him right now. I think it’s a safety thing so I don’t get hurt again. But I need to for us to move forward. It’s so hard
2026-03-04 18:06:39
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❤️HANNAH ❤️ :
When did you know that God was changing your husband‘s heart? What’s the cold toward you not coming home at wanting to be around you
2026-03-06 22:05:59
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LPP :
So basically now I’m expecting somebody who was violating boundaries year after year to suddenly respect them?
2026-03-18 22:40:31
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Unbreaking Project 🧡 Amanda :
These are two wildly different questions
2026-04-27 16:34:55
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Alissa McCarter932 :
Where can I watch or listen to your podcast? 🥹
2026-03-04 18:45:31
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beckymac81 :
What do you do if your partner won’t let you put any boundaries in place just gets really angry
2026-03-06 16:07:18
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lavella :
What is a good location app? My partner was trying to use Snapchat location against me because it put me at a different location while i was at work.
2026-03-18 23:00:36
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SammyeLea :
I've seen 3 to 5 years repeatedly from different people. I just sounds like such a long time.
2026-03-05 19:11:57
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Crysnaelle :
Thank you! I thought I was just over reacting but it is actually me having boundaries ☺️
2026-03-07 04:42:54
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Stacey Apodaca :
Omg!! yessss same
2026-03-10 12:43:16
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Moffit2026 :
Sound exhausting.
2026-03-05 14:07:57
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feliz :
What if his boundaries are too much? Like expecting I don’t go out with friends anymore even to a bar or something like that. Or getting mad if I don’t have time for him and always having to prioritize him over my friends and family.
2026-04-06 11:33:20
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Rose Alee :
He wants me to stop talking to 2 my friends that knew I betrayed him it’s kinda of hard letting them go even though I know they aren’t good
2026-04-07 16:36:41
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Tatjana Mustafov :
I had all that. And he still cheated. Right next to me
2026-05-02 21:05:35
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Bella 💗 :
I hope you see this and respond. I have some questions I’m currently 18 and 22 weeks pregnant and I have questions about my current ex fiance but trying to figure things out after he cheated. I would rather speak privately and ask these questions privately. Please respond to this and send me a message. I really need help and another opinion and thoughts.
2026-05-27 14:45:50
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Miss Amulioto :
When you say his phone,would you check it in his presence or hide because some will give you that access only to change the secrecy level with the lady. so you check the phone nothing but in real sense they are still together.
2026-04-20 22:32:58
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Maddie :
what if I already had access and everything, Location- had it. and he still cheated. like what boundary do I put up then?
2026-04-27 15:16:32
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Roseyaaa :
@Cool_Things
2026-06-09 11:58:15
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