xoxo, cj •relationship burnout
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Zach Heltzel :
Grieving a relationship while you’re still in it while the other person is completely in the dark is wiiiiild
2026-03-06 02:32:30
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✧･ﾟ: *✧Vianey✧･ﾟ: *✧ :
I thought about sending this to him for about 0.5 seconds and decided that I don’t care anymore. He would never watch it anyway…
2026-03-06 18:55:28
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Erin J Martin :
it also shows that they were capable of the change all along, but chose not to because it wasn't valuable enough before that
2026-03-11 20:35:53
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Ferdinand and Irina :
and when they go "work on themselves" all that comes in mind "oh, so you were able to do it the whole time? and were CHOOSING not to"
2026-03-07 00:10:27
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Jeremy s :
Not just that it can build a little resentment because they could have done it the entire time and they waited until you hit your breaking point to care.
2026-03-06 20:17:15
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momma_430🇨🇦 :
I'm this right now! I am so done and now he is being really nice but I feel so done!
2026-03-05 13:55:29
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Animal000 :
As someone who has had this just happen to them, the burnt out pursuer at least in my scenario never brought up the feelings they where having. They just told me I needed to do this or do that and then started distancing themselves when I didn't do the things they said because I didn't see the need to go through with them. Our relationship could have been saved had we been able to sit down and actually talk about the feeling behind the need or why we need to take this action we could have saved the relationship. Not entirely their fault because I could have done more though I was extremely drained from trying to work and provide for us and trying to figure out my strained relationship with their mother.
2026-03-26 20:27:37
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Chelle Cypress Books :
It’s like bro…why didn’t you of this 6 months ago 😒 oh because the pressure made it real instead of “hypothetical”
2026-03-05 06:19:08
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Groovyhhhhh :
I was grieving in my engagement, I literally went to the movies and watch hurry up tomorrow. I broke up with my ex fiance two days later. I was done. I was burntttt and shawty wasn’t tryna meet me half way.
2026-03-24 02:13:33
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Rizzly Bear 🐻 :
Because they had to push me to the edge. Now they want to try? Why not try when you saw my effort?
2026-03-06 16:03:01
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theinnercorrmethod :
And when you detach, that’s when the emotional manipulation and breadcrumbing happens and so the cycle begins again. Heal the wounds the person is showing you needs healed and you’ll never enter this dynamic again!
2026-03-06 13:03:35
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Rebecca Lace :
Just let me go
2026-03-06 14:05:03
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Aris Ink :
What if you're the burnt out pursuer and the partner is a dismissive avoidant?
2026-03-25 19:23:16
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Amanda Marie :
"If I have to choose one person, I have to choose myself." Chelsea Handler We Can Do Hard Things (ep 115)
2026-03-06 02:10:46
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Ray :
Crazy how people are like “I want my partner to notice things about me” and others twist that to mean “mind reader”
2026-03-07 02:52:29
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MetalHeadJon444 :
Sounds like they didn't communicate where they were emotionally
2026-03-24 04:17:05
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Steiner :
I’m glad you went thru the burnt out phase and still gave it a chance…… most do not do this.
2026-03-26 06:13:42
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MiaAngel618 :
And yet, I've had people tell me I'm making the wrong choice to leave and that the other person's intentions are good. I'm still the monster.
2026-03-06 11:32:41
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James K :
Even there touch feels hollow
2026-03-06 18:52:22
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🎶🩵🎵JMAC🎵🩵🎶 :
Yes!!!! This hits home!
2026-03-06 12:03:01
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My Beard and I :
I fear that the space is what I need to end it. If I am given the space I will not look back.
2026-03-04 22:53:10
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Smith Delivery Service LLC :
And they blame us if we want out so they see us as the problem
2026-03-06 20:17:44
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Clifjrich💙🇺🇸🏳️🌈 :
Thank you for helping me feel seen, from a neurodivergent, anxious, exhausted, nearly burnt out husband ❤️🩹
2026-03-10 06:19:36
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delilahs_plottwist :
Are you in my head…. Literally going through this right now 🥺
2026-04-29 23:06:02
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DallasLee :
Okay but what if you agree to “try” again and start therapy and he backslides again after two months like every other time…. I don’t think I can do it again.
2026-03-18 04:50:11
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