@the_astute_femme: There are over 300 harmful comments on a thread where a femme made a joke about coming home late after a night out. I’m shocked but not surprised. I’ve heard the weak defense of "not all studs" too many times; we don’t want to hear it, it’s ineffective and oversimplifies the issue. I don’t care if it hurts your feelings. I once left a masculine partner who was beginning the escalate to physical violence, as the warning signs were there. DV is very serious, and toxic masculinity affects everyone. Do better. #wlw #lesbiansoftiktok #domesticabuseawareness
DV is never OK. It's never that serious. The minute hands are raised, it's time to leave and never look back
2026-03-05 12:23:18
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Muthajunker :
See this is scary…..I’m seriously at a loss of words 🥺
2026-05-20 12:21:59
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milllavellli :
well damn what she say
2026-03-06 20:34:53
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South Sound Sapphic :
One of my best friends dated a stud that almost 💀 her a then SA’d when she was done. An actual monster. She went to police and they laughed. She told one of our mutuals, she also laughed. I was absolutely disgusted and helped her escape and move out, just to end up back with her a week later.
2026-03-05 14:50:16
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shayspeaks_myg :
What is going onnnnnnnn smh..
2026-03-05 03:03:10
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Alysia (Ah-Lee-See-Ya)🌈♌️ :
DV is not a joke
2026-03-06 00:38:10
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Ndless Summer | DJ :
Uughh this is disturbing. I pray this mess can stop and people start working on their healing. Some people really have a thing for toxicity and it’s sickening.
2026-03-05 21:13:19
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LovesPromise809🏳️🌈 :
Wow😳
2026-04-06 15:12:51
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Michelle |🦉🏳️🌈 :
That’s crazy.
2026-03-07 20:45:13
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Cocoizback :
Now friend
2026-03-05 15:00:29
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Dahomey Calixte 🇭🇹❤️💕💃🏿 :
omg scary 😨
2026-03-05 03:02:21
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wonderfully.made1111 :
Wow!
2026-03-04 21:00:45
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calpertapineiro4 :
im not surprised
2026-03-04 21:22:17
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Saan John :
Dayummm
2026-04-02 13:55:44
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Tre Blendz :
The work is never done. I needed this to keep on going..somebody needs my wisdom. Clear.🚶🏾♂️
2026-05-26 18:51:11
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Tre Blendz :
Wow 🚶🏾♂️
2026-05-26 18:49:46
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Catnip Evergreen :
😳
2026-04-09 15:50:19
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Be Mindful :
👀
2026-03-31 01:44:58
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Aye'oo Cass :
🥺
2026-03-05 23:59:47
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Femi Hicks Boss G :
🥰🥰🥰
2026-03-25 23:20:00
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lezthadon🩷🤍🧡 :
what they're saying is mad weird but fem women are abusive too. I've got stories and scars
2026-03-04 22:57:38
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ShesMajickal🌈🌈🌈 :
My ex broke my ribs. i believe them. its sad
2026-03-07 15:27:45
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jessenoughnottoomuch :
It may sound odd and perhaps a deeper string of thought may be needed but in my observations it seems like a lot studs want to emulate straight relationships I.e overly aggressive, hyper " masculine " I don't want to over explain if you get it you get it 🤷🏾♀️
2026-03-05 16:47:56
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Keeper of The Essence :
That's those lost souls who hail abusive straight men as blueprints because they really do believe they have to mirror what straight men do, to be male like. These young ones are deeply wounded and heavily misguided. There are good men to mirror, if you have to mirror a man and damn good masculine women to mirror❤️.....now that's the tea!!!
2026-03-06 12:20:24
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💜🐼😽✂️ :
alot if lesbians normalize DV and toxic relationships especially the younger lesbians
2026-03-05 01:10:36
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