@luka.np:

mahy.26 :

I think it’s real because people say the truth when they are angry, they just spill what inside them for a long time

🌟 :

For me, i believe people treat you based on the state of mind their in. Some people will unintentionally hurt you because theyre at war with themselves suffering, and suffering with things that has nothing to do with you.

Camilo :

It really depends ngl I’ve said things that I don’t mean at all out of anger and that’s on me. Not to say that people don’t speak their truth when they’re angry, but it isn’t 100% everytime.

DRE :

honestly i don’t think it’s their real perception, especially depending on the situation. some people say things they don’t mean when they are hurt and angry

olimp_motivation :

anger bypasses the prefrontal cortex. what someone says when dysregulated is not a window into how they see you - it is a window into their threat response. words spoken in anger are not truth. they are noise from an overwhelmed nervous system.

yasmin ᥫ᭡ :

it’s not

zoe :

i think it depends but i also definitely think that it derives from insecurity. because ive done this before and felt bad about it, knowing the only reason i said those things was to bring that person down in the moment as i was just angry with myself. i always hoped it didnt make me a bad person

🐶 :

Welp

Passant :

Yes it is. Because when someone is calm they usually filter what they say to avoid hurting the other person but when they’re angry, that filter drops. So they might say things they already believed or suspected but normally wouldn’t say out loud.

Kishella ( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧ :

"You're such a dissapointment!" My mom when i dropped my tempura accidentally

cseanx :

Did she really mean it, I owned up my mistakes but still, I can't forget how bad those words hit me ☹️I love her

Amelie :

In every anger you can find a little truth.

່ :

it is 95% of the time

✨🦋Maria 🦋✨ :

this is why we need to learn to always take a step back before we speak🥹🥹

feaaa :

ketika seseorang mengatakan sesuatu tentangmu dalam keadaan marah dan sekarang kamu bingung apakah itu persepsi mereka yang sebenarnya tentang dirimu.

Bbghh :

It is

trixie :

nbiladumpieee :

olimp_motivation :

there is neuroscience behind this. mirror neurons literally simulate what others feel. not sensitivity. a brain wired to care

JYM♡ :

why we tends to remember all the things they say when they're mad, but not when they're in a good mood.

chaym_kh :

Some people do not take the blame of their actions, instead they will always act like the victimes and you are the evil

venicebitch :

"you never please anyone"