@thetrishlaw: The hardest part about growth isn’t the haters. It’s the subtle insecurity of the people who love you. Not always intentionally. Not always malicious. But sometimes the people closest to you aren’t confident enough in themselves to watch you evolve. So the resistance doesn’t look like sabotage. It looks like silence. Jokes at your expense. “Yeah, but…” energy. Devil’s advocate when you needed celebration. I call it arsenic in the well. Tiny doses of doubt that slowly make you question yourself. If you’re serious about growing, healing, and becoming who you’re meant to be… you have to become extremely discerning about who has access to your dreams. Not everyone is responsible enough to hold that kind of proximity to your evolution. And that’s okay. But it’s something you need to see clearly. #fyp #lifecoach #traumatok
This! When I shared excitedly that my book make bestseller and my aunt said “you’re kidding me”. And not in a “oh wow that’s amazing congratulations let’s celebrate”you’re kidding me. But more of a “no way, you’ve got to be kidding me kind of way”. It was such a gut punch and so hurtful.
2026-03-23 14:22:45
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Frazier Lending Group :
Yep! I’m sober and can only talk to other sober people about that. People walking a similar path can relate more than the people impacted by my past behavior. It’s wild.
2026-03-06 03:57:09
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CapeCodTim :
Wow. Totally crushed it! Omg. These issues ended my marriage after 29 years. 1000s of cuts while I was growing and they were not.
2026-03-07 06:08:19
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Amber :
I already have my long life friends dropping out from my circle.
2026-04-20 18:42:54
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Michelle 🌹 :
My parents were the worst I honestly stopped telling them anything I’ve done to better myself.
2026-03-08 15:09:40
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✨️🫧BubbleCakes🫧✨️ :
its happened countless times. burned lots of bridges over it too.
2026-03-09 05:23:18
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it’s me - G :
You are talking directly to me… I’m just sure of it…
2026-03-06 03:02:07
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Creative_Soul :
This is so true! I have watched my mom do the shrinking thing her whole life. Her parents taught her this and she tried to teach me to be this way. But I saw how it was holding me back so much, until I said "no more!". Once I did, I stopped asking for permission to do what I wanted to do from people that did not want to see me grow. Instead I started listening to my gut instincts.
2026-03-14 23:47:36
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elle :
More blessing to you Ms Trish 🥰
2026-04-23 04:11:28
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EjbMuni :
If they keep you small they don't really love you.
2026-04-21 05:37:32
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raina :
This is so true. I finally got bookings as a professional singer. thought my family would be very proud of me but they are so unsupportive but I'm still moving forward
2026-03-06 19:05:29
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FireFlyV :
YEP THAT IS SO TRUE WOW
2026-03-08 02:15:38
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61018diane :
So true.. my daughter almost destroyed me🤦🏻♀️
2026-03-05 22:54:16
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GiGi :
WOW…..This makes total sense! You always, always, always, help connect the dots….This message is powerful! Thank-you….💝
2026-03-05 16:06:37
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mel5280❌️ :
feeling it now
2026-03-05 17:00:55
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Liz🌟 :
Thank you! Needed to hear this 🫶🏼
2026-03-05 15:39:48
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F.A :
my mom
2026-03-05 22:49:29
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Faithfulness :
facts
2026-03-05 23:07:11
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Plants & Flowers :
Correct...i belive that we are more connected emotionally to our inner circle, and we expect that the inner circle to have same connection towards us...which not happens...
2026-05-02 14:13:48
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valerie Hughes :
This is very encouraging. Trauma work is very deep and tiring, alot will be surprised. Growing is essential for our human race. Its always going to be fact, good/ bad, how we get over it is the propeller. Staying stuck is very costly in life, so is moving forward but its a hugely rewarding one. Anyone thinking of doing trauma, try it, give it time and a chance. This is when the freedom comes. Really enjoyed this reel, thanks for the support you are putting out for others🥰🙏👏
2026-04-12 13:03:11
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Michelle x bymad :
I love number 2 the most! “be incredibly discerning on who is responsible enough to support your growth.” I have a small circle who I only share wins and journey with. never insecure, hypes you up. I realized those are the same people who are putting in the work and is building something for themselves.
2026-05-01 06:24:24
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Miriam🌹 :
thank you 🔥
2026-04-25 21:56:12
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DinaDouvikas :
This is very accurate. To add to this: this comes from both strangers and inner circle but you could care less about strangers and their opinions, so it’s not really that the comments or actions are different they just hit different when it’s “your people”
2026-04-23 16:52:53
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Claudine :
I find my Mom keeps still wanting to control me, even though I’m 57, it drives me insane.
2026-04-13 08:02:58
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ms.oliviamarie :
Woah. Thank you for this 🙏🏼❤️🩹🥹
2026-03-05 18:07:16
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