@_olivialesurfwray: Are you currently going through a breakup and every time you try to talk to your ex, fix things or get in contact it feels like you’re pushing them further away? & this has left you feeling confused, lost and with no idea of what to do next As a relationship coach and therapist I’ll explain the best next steps and why it’s the best thing to do after your breakup If you’re interested in a 1-1 jump on my website and fill out a consultation form or join my community The Relationship Lounge 🛋️ On Patreon 🤍 & I look forward to helping you heal 🌿 #dismissiveavoidant #nocontact #attachmenttheory #breakup #relationshipadvice
But why aren’t they honest about it? I got told he wanted be with me then 4 days later he didn’t want to be with me anymore
2026-03-07 15:59:09
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Laura 🎀 :
“Nobody wants to feel like they’re about to hurt someone or they are hurting someone” I don’t think that statement is entirely accurate. There are are some very sadistic and twisted people who get some kind of enjoyment or thrill out of hurting others. Yes leaving someone is often premeditated.
2026-03-06 10:16:30
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Abi Shaw :
After the three months should I contact them again (they maybe would want to contact me but pride could get in the way) or should I just completely not contact him again? I said some mean things to him when he broke up with me and even though I apologised I worry he would still be thinking about that
2026-03-06 08:43:48
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Sweavssss :
She said the most vulnerable thing she had ever said. Then went into deactivation mode shortly after and then blocked me after I broke no contact and we had a really good day of talking resulting in her admitting we fit back easily. 5 weeks later still feels rough.
2026-03-05 17:07:18
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Bianca :
Why don’t partners bring up what’s hurting them? Making them want to leave? Why don’t they give their partner a chance to fix it?
2026-04-03 14:12:02
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Adela :
My ex and I had been together for five years. He was very affectionate, and it’s true that in the last few months we had grown quite distant. He broke up with me from one day to the next (February 1st). I know he had been thinking about it, even though he says he hadn’t.
It’s true that I have humiliated myself quite a bit, and I suppose that may have boosted his ego and made him treat me more coldly. He admits that he didn’t act completely right. He asked me for some time to think about himself, but without clearly defining how long, which doesn’t seem entirely fair to me because it leaves me in a state of uncertainty.
I know he hasn’t had an easy time with this situation either, but I will respect the time he needs. February 27th is actually the date since we stopped seeing each other.
The thing is, his birthday is on May 6th. Should I wish him a happy birthday or not? I care about him, but I also don’t want him to see it as me still being focused on him. What do you recommend I do?
2026-03-07 03:51:43
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rley0808 :
How do I go into non contact if we work together and we still plan to move to another country together? We want to move together still due to financial reasons, I’m going there to study and she’s going there to work. This will be in mid to end July
2026-05-20 15:08:22
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Chloe Hunter :
how can this be managed if you have a child together?
2026-05-12 12:21:08
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Mary Dundon trance queen :
how do you do no contact when you live in the same house with kids
2026-03-06 13:19:57
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Megan May Young :
What if you can’t do no contact for three months because you have a house together?
2026-03-07 13:42:25
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pam :
what happens if you still live together and both of us can't afford a house on our own
2026-04-29 18:39:07
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Klaraweintje 🤍 :
Hey so idk what to do.. so I thought he wanted nc but after 2 days he send me a text with gl for my new job next week idk how to feel or what to do rlly
2026-04-13 12:06:42
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LAURA :
day 5.....currently struggling
2026-05-04 21:13:14
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Charz :
how can we do that if we have kids together x
2026-03-05 22:22:01
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The Lone Ranger :
This is great advice, however I work with my wife, how do I do this while working with her? It’s killing me.
2026-04-08 06:31:24
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Elle :
How do u do no contact when u r still living in ur ex’s home until u can find ur own place?
2026-03-06 17:56:23
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Tiffaniix :
I begged him to stay and fight for me because it was my best relationship. I realized that begging and pleading didn’t make him see my worth, so I decided to block him and pour back into myself. I miss him a lot, but baby steps I guess.
2026-04-09 23:15:21
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Steviej :
She has new supply been over 6 months no contact
2026-03-05 21:02:12
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Al 💭 :
My partner of 14 years said he doesn’t love me anymore and doesn’t want to be with me, we live together ti make it even harder. Currently going no contact only on day 1 but I feel like I’m dying
2026-06-01 21:41:37
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lucycork :
how do you do this when there was no signs you was fine and they just leave 1 day and you have 2 kids and 8 months pregnant after 8 years 🙃
2026-03-23 20:08:29
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Big Jim :
what happens if she got in to a new relationship straight away
2026-04-06 12:33:09
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