Abby Rodman | Psychotherapist
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Thursday 05 March 2026 17:29:58 GMT
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Bee ✨ :
After I left it all went bad in my mind
2026-09-06 14:38:56
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NYCRelevant :
it's so horrifying to realize I fell in love with someone who actually despised and hated me. 😳 horrifying
2026-03-06 04:42:36
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tapintolove8 :
It was the best relationship I’ve ever had. And, it was the worst relationship I’ve ever had.
2026-03-07 13:25:21
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One Honey :
absolutely correct, I was 19yrs old , thought my life was perfect, thinking back 35yrs later I realized it was all controlled lovebombing. Thanks to ticktock, it was never my fault. The day I called him out, he packed his stuff and left. He did me a favor, im 55 and starting over🙏. Everyone thinks he is such a nice guy😁
2026-03-05 20:48:15
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Jee :
The fact that I was being fooled at the beginning is what makes me angry. I'm never going back to someone who saw me as a fool or a tool to be used🥺
2026-03-06 22:51:03
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Tikketyboo82 :
Before I left him after 21 years and three kids together he said “ what about the good times?” I said there were no good times you were always faking it. His face changed then. And the tears dried up quickly.
2026-03-06 08:31:34
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Macey Cinc :
I refer to the good times as “fake peace”
2026-03-05 21:49:53
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wackyyellowhello :
I actually realized this about a week ago at the same time I realized that what he fed me during the good times was created to perfectly meet an unhealthy inner need that I had about my own worth. I Love your videos, does what I say there make sense? I’m still flipping it around a bit in my brain. 27 years together, 4 months apart.
2026-03-06 00:04:44
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Bloomin'WhereI'mPlanted :
my narcopath was a guru, so even my soul and spirituality were destroyed.
2026-03-05 20:24:04
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Tony :
Yup, Sad but true.💯
2026-03-05 17:55:28
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✨Laurie✨ :
yes 100%. mine was 24 years on/off never lived together longer than a week. someone asked how long Ive been single for and I honestly cant say.
2026-03-05 22:38:54
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Amal :
The bad times are enough to wipe anything else. It’s learning that all was fake so there was no good time.
2026-03-05 17:40:19
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Lulu da Pomerânia :
Indeed. It's all part of the plan.
2026-03-05 21:27:16
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Emma Gribble :
You are spot on. Worst relationship I have ever had.
2026-03-11 15:25:26
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Tim Rosselet :
PREACH Abby!!!!!
2026-03-06 01:58:23
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littlebigdreams320 :
He broke me. I don't even remember the good times. I don't hate him, I feel sorry for him. He had it all, but all was not enough. I'm enough, I was always enough.
2026-04-02 11:45:36
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Spitfire3 :
“The good times were part of the abuse”….. 💯‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️
2026-03-07 22:28:52
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Lucretia Mikel :
Wow… so interesting. Well said. This helps me ALOT!
2026-03-07 18:15:42
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chearts3 :
Nothing was ever safe. Such a gut punch. Not one tender moment.
2026-03-06 03:29:14
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Chris :
Thank you
2026-03-05 21:33:17
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sheilsm1 :
I needed this as I occasionally remember the good times, I will not forget this!🙏
2026-03-06 00:06:11
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LyndaMarie :
This is so true. He threw me off by planning a vacation for our 25th anniversary. I was so caught up I didn’t recognize what was going on. I found out he would talk to the AP while I went to the gym or for a walk. In picture later on I realized he wasn’t wearing his wedding ring on the trip. He started fights out of nowhere. He was grooming me for the hell that was to come. It was ALL abuse.
2026-03-05 21:43:49
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magistropolis1 :
What the difference between a narcisist and an avoidant?
2026-03-06 07:22:12
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thegentlesoul88 :
In a narcissistic relationship, the good times was the trauma bond where they kept you under a spell . These may have felt good times but they were a living nightmare because they kept you stuck. Two years no contact and in peace and finally moving on with my life. #narcissisticabuse
2026-03-05 22:34:29
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