FWIW, buying the bathing suit is also the hardest part for me as a CIS woman. The questions you’re asking yourself in the morning match what maaaaany women think. You’ve got this though!!
2026-03-05 20:26:43
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WesternChrysalis :
Bathing suit shopping is low key traumatic for pretty much all of us. Didn't matter if I was a size 6 or a size 12.
2026-03-05 20:30:53
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TeeTee70 🇨🇦 :
I'm a mom of a beautiful trans daughter, she's 31, we began her journey when she was 16... confidence happens as you grow through the process! you're BEAUTIFUL! And I'm. proud of you!!
2026-04-12 04:55:22
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hq41 :
it's scary for us all! But you're explanation makes me feel like I want to go that extra mile the next time I'm shopping and be that shopper who fluffs another girl up on her choices! Like an impartial 3rd party saying "Yes! That looks great!" sometimes helps.
2026-03-05 23:04:35
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Jackie | Intersex + Real Life :
swimsuit shopping is the absolute worst!!!! i’m sure it’s not easy for you :( do you have a style you are looking at specifically?
2026-04-28 11:18:15
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bmama-4 :
girl, come to PHX and I'll take you. and keep people in check. I'm serious.
2026-03-05 20:31:38
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Jen Capra :
You are doing great! I can’t imagine the added stress this gives you on top of the usual bathing suit shopping hell we deal with as women. Like others have said, you’re gorgeous & probably passing more than you realize, if that’s any comfort.
2026-03-06 05:43:16
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Tina Tang :
there are so many femme and fun options for cover ups that make the bathing suit situation cute and protective as well. Cover ups dont have to be boring or unfashionable. You got this!!
2026-03-05 20:53:27
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Tyna 🇨🇦 :
Women come in different shapes and sizes. One thing you need to hang onto is your inner being. Get what feels the most comfortable stop thinking of what others think because that drives us crazy. Be true to yourself. They have some awesome short/skirt type bathing suits now. Don't deny yourself the rite to living life as you see fit. It's all unique to each of us trans straight gay or whatever. Remember, to thine own self be true. Ignore the haters the nasties. Btw I'm an 72 yr old boomer! Just live your life sweetie ♥️
2026-03-05 23:58:23
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jensta√ :
98% of people think you're cool. the 2% control the narrative. I can understand how this is scary. I wish we could protect you easier. what would help you know you're cool with me. as a stranger in public? we have a cashier at our local grocystore and I always try to smile at them more than my usual amount. hoping they understand I think they are healthy
2026-03-07 04:51:37
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Ginger🏳️🌈🇨🇦 :
tomboyx has really nice options
2026-04-04 07:43:39
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Canne :
✨✨✨
2026-03-05 20:25:05
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Rebecca :
I get traumatized for a few reasons.. uncomfortable or ill fitting designs. Either it fits on the hips.. but hangs on the boobs. 🤦♀️
2026-03-06 01:13:25
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k Grant917 :
as a CIs woman, I some days feel very confident in a skimpy bathing suit, other days I wear a swim shirt and shorts. honestly it's rarely about me, and more about how I think I'll be judged or oogled at the beach. I am worried about how others will react.
2026-03-05 20:48:25
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joy :
Oooooo you could order a bunch off Amazon, or Target, or whatever. Try them on in the comfort of your home, and then return the ones you don't like. I do that because I don't like public swimsuit buying either. I don't think any of us like it.
2026-03-06 02:52:18
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Susan 🇨🇦 :
Honestly most dedicated swim stores will be very helpful and I can guarantee you are not the first trans person to be looking for a suit. I used to work for a well known swim company and we had people all the time with the same concerns. The sales person should make you feel comfortable. If not, ask for another person to help. Use their expertise.
2026-03-06 00:14:08
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JustJulie🇨🇦 :
Have you tried one of those super cute retro 50’s suits? I feel like you would look great in one. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
2026-03-06 01:09:50
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Sledwidow :
Pruse temu or shien !!! You can look at all kinds of suits. Ps the quality is pretty good !!! Easy to return.
2026-03-06 03:32:24
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Mitch :
I dont know you but I've seen like 4 of your videos tonight. and im proud of you
2026-03-07 05:06:22
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Ena :
I'm not saying it's the same thing, but as a plus size girl, buying the bathing suit is much much more terrifying for me than wearing it 😅
2026-03-07 08:00:15
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🇨🇦beachbum141🇨🇦 :
I missed some summers in the ocean with my daughter because I felt that I was too big. One summer, I realized that I needed to get over my self and get out there and enjoy life! I gained confidence and coincidentally lost weight too!
2026-03-17 21:55:05
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Tara :
I would be so scared. You are so brave.
2026-03-05 20:27:32
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Jessica Vanchoui :
❤️
2026-03-05 20:58:11
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Brux :
i started wearing uv protecting shirts last summer. you can get them at sports stores, and it both keep you covered and keeps your skin protected. you can do that for a top, with any bikini top that you like underneath.
2026-03-05 20:35:47
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maureenbarnes2🇨🇦❌ :
Have you looked at styles like this?
2026-03-05 20:30:30
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lindaswain419 :
well done you ms jsye
2026-03-05 20:28:11
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ThirdEyeWink2.0 :
You should stop feeling scared as you look more like a woman than I do and as a human you are well above average. Stand proud 🦚
2026-03-05 20:27:34
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Crys :
Lovely human, so many of us feel that way buying anything revealing. But from what I've seen on your channel, you do not look the least bit like a guy. 🤍
2026-03-06 15:25:57
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gianluca_orienti :
Did you feel the same when you used to go shopping and wearing for a swimsuit before transitioning?
2026-03-05 20:42:45
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Lulabella 🇨🇦🌻 :
I hate swim suit shopping so much!
2026-03-06 05:55:21
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Glitch :
I’m going to have a two piece summer.
2026-03-06 06:45:23
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Chris 🇨🇦 :
one peice or 2
2026-03-06 07:11:16
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Frances Turner 🏴 :
It’s definitely a woman’s thing babe we are all the same about hiding our bodies we all have something we dnt like I wear tankinis some have little skirts on them others shorts you find something you feel good in 🥰
2026-03-06 05:07:22
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Karla23🇨🇦🏳️🌈 :
Welcome to being a woman. Bathing suit shopping is nerve racking as a Cis woman too… ❤️
2026-03-06 08:07:36
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pip :
A sarong is a girls best friend, just drape it before and after you have been in the water💕
2026-03-06 08:39:54
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🇨🇦 :
Well… if your stressing about swimsuits congrats your officially a female!!!
2026-03-06 15:13:04
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Huh :
you made it harder then it really is 🥰
2026-03-22 05:12:24
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Fifi :
wear what makes you feel confident and spend every moment with the kids
2026-03-06 17:01:25
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Georgia Kable :
Sweetheart, please please just be happy and buy what makes you happy! You are beautiful and your body is beautiful.
2026-03-06 22:36:30
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Charlie x :
So what did you actually get then? Are we going to see ? ❤️
2026-03-07 05:27:22
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user9656502945730 :
It’s always aweful! Just an Fayai? H
2026-03-07 08:37:59
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jay :
How did the shopping go?
2026-03-07 16:25:10
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Chantelle L'Heureux 🇨🇦 :
I don’t feel good in my body anymore and I was going on vacation. I found a swimsuit like this and added a cute pair of shorts and I felt good. I hope you can find something that works for you.
2026-03-25 04:30:43
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Charli Leece :
Literally the only reason I went shopping for a bathing suit was that my bestie was going to Cuba for a week, and I said fuck it, I need one anyway. ended up buying a bikini, which I would never feel comfortable in, and a rash guard for a cover up
2026-03-05 21:35:39
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ThirdEyeWink2.0 :
Well not from my perspective as all I see and hear is lady.
2026-03-05 22:00:57
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Firewife_173 :
Honey. You could be buying a suit for someone else too? No one is going to pay attention!! You got this!
2026-03-05 22:05:29
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lindareid309 :
There are nice slightly skirted bathing suits, anyone can buy a bathing suit.dont even give it a thought, just do it.
2026-03-05 22:20:11
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Emily Parker :
my trans wifey likes me to go shopping with her so I can help her pick stuff out but also helps her feel more comfortable walking through and shopping women's sections of stores. especially when it's lingerie or swimwear.
2026-03-05 22:26:34
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Kimmer :
That and bra shopping is the WORST
2026-03-05 22:48:48
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doomnoodle 🇨🇦 🇺🇦 :
You're a lion. I could never.
2026-03-05 23:39:21
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Kailiia 🇨🇦 :
You’re going to find something that you feel good in eventually, but is doesn’t have to be “a swim suit”. My go to for swimming is honestly a sports bra layered with an athletic tank and board shorts or a plain full coverage bottom. I can use the pieces separately if I want and I don’t have to worry about something slipping when I’m swimming or playing in the water with my kids.
2026-03-05 23:47:14
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Nell :
It is scary. Doubly so as a trans woman, I'm sure. But that scariness is a society problem, it's not reflecting anything wrong or inadequate about you, your body, or your gender. Unfortunately, knowing this doesn't make it less scary
2026-03-05 23:49:22
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