Evelyn | Wellness Coach
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Harry :
Chemistry might be easy but it is EXTREMELY rare.
2026-03-08 23:49:27
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Michael.jp_ :
How do you see their capacity early on? Without wasting too much time…
2026-03-06 23:20:03
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brogandy🏴 :
Just wasted 6 months of my life on this, and not being chosen.
2026-03-06 05:13:37
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theotherinternetuser :
This is one of those things you know deep down but takes someone else articulating it well as you did to finally make sense
2026-03-06 06:58:32
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Sabina Gentry :
To me, it means they don’t like you enough. I’ve realized that in my own experiences when they couldn’t
2026-03-06 23:40:22
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livingmidget :
one thing that is not mention enough alongside this very true statement is that capacity can grow. it is not something that is set in stone.
2026-03-06 23:12:03
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Lucy Chen :
It is so easy to stay stuck chasing a connection because you know the chemistry was real. Remembering that capacity is a completely separate issue from love is a massive mindset shift. 🧠
2026-06-02 22:02:20
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JamieMarie :
Yeah he hurt me. We had this insane pull towards each other but he couldn’t meet me even half way. I then learned he’s an avoidant. 😔
2026-03-08 00:09:47
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silver :
Oh, I learned this the hard way.
2026-03-07 21:21:59
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JKRed :
“Liking you is not the same as choosing you.” Um, yeah, that one got my attention…and hurt (in a good way). Thanks for sharing this. 🙏🥹
2026-03-06 17:54:37
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NA GŁOS | podcast :
How devastating
2026-03-09 22:21:33
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April Amante :
I agree with all this except that chemistry and attraction are easy I'm 40, I find it about once every 7 years so far 😮💨
2026-03-07 02:33:45
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TravelwithRichelle :
I’m with an avoidant and there’s just no sense of emptional capacity. It’s so draining. Like even the bare minimum is hard gosh. How to let go?
2026-03-08 15:37:03
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Stelina Maggou :
This is exactly what’s happening to me right now
2026-03-09 22:44:21
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real.life.issues0.0 :
i wasn’t expecting much but i tried hoppy and it’s actually been easier to match with people who reply properly. idk if it’s the setup but it feels less chaotic
2026-03-09 15:04:56
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Steph Blakey :
This spoke to me
2026-03-11 21:32:55
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dannytolson044 :
Exhausting .
2026-04-17 10:18:12
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melissaayala17 :
So accurate. Literally wasted almost 2 years of my life!
2026-03-06 05:48:26
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meow :
did we have chemistry and attraction? yes sure but he couldn‘t give me what i needed so i had to leave
2026-03-10 01:44:33
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The moon 🌙 :
THIS !!!
2026-03-06 03:18:35
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bree ☽🎡 :
I’m learning 🙇🏽♀️
2026-03-06 07:13:18
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ashleyroseroams :
I didn't have the capacity to teach him how to emotionally regulate and communicate, is that the same? I keep questioning if I should have been more patient
2026-04-14 14:51:58
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steph 😜💫🫶 :
💯 agree
2026-03-12 14:01:13
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liz_may_ :
💯 Fact
2026-03-10 18:15:23
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finanzasconcarola :
How can someone develop that emotional capacity you mentioned?
2026-03-09 17:34:29
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