@patrickgotit: Avoidants have a very recognizeable pattern and here it is

Debbie Wear :

Patrick always keep your smiling eyes

Fle❌2Day :

Deny, deflect, dismiss, empty promises, short term performance, gaslighting, bread crumbing, avoidance, REPEAT. Save yourselves & walk away EXPEDITIOUSLY

Ms.Smiles :

facts of life. that's exactly what happened just wish they would come back and let me help them heal. my heart won't let go of them because I see me in them but I learned to heal. this stuffs real. you hit that right on the nail

livinthegoodvibes8 :

It’s so tough! 😭😭😭

BrownEyedGirl ⌚️ :

So well-said!! I needed to hear this!! Exactly what I went through! Brutal to the core! Leaving, learning & healing is the best way to never find an avoidant again! 💛

Mak Endu Mit :

So many rules in the relationship i haven't known.... lack of experience with that.

Annie :

Nice to have it broken down like this!

Becky 🩷🏃‍♀️⌚️🚌🎧 :

As you begin to detach, Curiosity returns—about new people, new paths, and the parts of yourself that were quietly waiting to grow. Your energy drifts back toward passions, dreams, and small joys that belong only to you. And somewhere along the way, they stop being the center of your story💕

pamcglisson :

Such a painful process, yet people fall for it all the time.

Ilene :

Exactly!!!

agne_patasiute :

Healing from this right now

🏹🌕RUBY84⌚ :

Indeed a sabotage to core 100%. The hard thing of it all is the no emotional intimacy. Well explain!

abun_feny 🇩🇪 :

Thank you for explaining these, I always ask n tell myself that I’m not a good person. Thanks for building my confidence step by step, this video means a lot to me.

Modestine Queen :

I didn't know I was actually like this until my last relationship

Veronica :

So true, no wonder I preferred my freedom for 25yrs, no more pressure anymore 😂😂

Debbie Wear :

I just gave my conditions I want peace and respect

TJ Kellems :

I hope I’m not like this

Raymond F chandler :

How are you doing

leslie.jenkins881 :

Well said 💯

Rose Rachoshi :

exactly

Jerri Noel953 :

Thank you for speaking the truth. I really needed to hear this. I've walked away and kept it that way. At my age now I'm just good by myself. 😊💜💜

Eva BJ :

Thank you🙏🙏🙏🙏

NSpiel :