@soheefit: Behind Our Marriage: The Fun, The Fights, & The Future 👀 In this episode or the All or Something Podcast, @Ben Carpenter and I sit down for a candid (and occasionally exposing) relationship Q&A in which nothing is off limits. We kick things off with a rapid-fire round of “Who’s more likely to…” — from who apologizes first after an argument, who’s more likely to spend money, who stays calm in an emergency, and more. Then we zoom out into the bigger stuff. We share how we met, how quickly we knew this was it, and the small, everyday habits that actually keep our relationship strong. We talk honestly about balancing being business partners and romantic partners, how we divide labor at home, and when we knew we wanted to become parents. The final stretch gets deeper: * What would actually be a deal breaker? * Is there anything from our past that still impacts us today? * What scares us most about our relationship? * And what makes each of us feel especially loved? If you’re in a relationship, curious about our dynamic, or simply enjoy hearing how couples actually work through things — this one’s for you. Find the All or Something Podcast on YouTube as well as all major streaming platforms. 🎧

Sohee Carpenter | Coach, PhD
Sohee Carpenter | Coach, PhD
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catlady0548
catlady05 :
Ben the biggest green flag ever!!! 💚💚💚
2026-03-07 11:02:09
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purebullfit
purebullfit :
To this day when I see people laud your ex it infuriates me. Watching how you nothing but flourish from that toxic situation till now has been a joy. May each day be happier, and most of fulfilling than the last.
2026-03-07 17:55:27
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mindyourownbusiness184
Just Jay :
I've always tried, as a husband, to be exactly like this. I haven't always been able to. I have failed, but not often, and I have tried to learn from my mistakes. As a couple you two seem amazing. Great example for your generation 👍
2026-03-06 07:24:42
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laurenk1978
🖤💜Lauren🖤💜 :
This is what relationships should be! ❤️❤️❤️
2026-03-06 00:35:14
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QueenZee :
OMG I have said this so many times to people I’ve been in relationships with and I’ve been I’ve been made to feel that like I’m the crazy one or maybe like I’m the one who is doing too much or however, it can be described. It makes me so happy to hear that this logic is not only in my head. I wanna give you guys a big hug.
2026-03-12 01:13:31
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leomeror
Leon Metzger :
I agree with his viewpoint, but I'm not as good at it as he is Sometimes I'm scared I don't deserve or am not allowed a nice loving relationship because I'm not good enough at being calm and collected and maybe never will be 🥲
2026-03-07 11:41:27
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ikr_829
ikr_829 :
you guys are awesome
2026-03-07 17:28:09
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anemtima
Ría :
This is so mature. conflicted isn’t a bad thing, it’s just all about HOW it’s managed and resolved. Are you working to resolve or working to win. I’m glad you’re both so supportive of each other and your relationship 💜
2026-03-06 09:39:00
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antxs85
Antxs :
So true! It’s “us vs the issue” not “you vs me” which is the best way to deal with things like these. So happy for and proud of both of you! You set such a healthy mental standard (physical too, but that’s another point)
2026-03-06 05:44:20
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Lucky666 :
If only there were more men like this in the world 💜 Love this for both of them x
2026-03-07 12:00:58
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wanderinginthedarkness
Becks :
This is the greenest flag between you two, relationships should be handled like this and when they're not, they're not worth retaining
2026-03-07 12:45:10
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scoobydogodsmack
BH2O :
That's how it should be
2026-03-06 03:07:41
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jaxandlo
Jax & Lo :
I need a man like this
2026-03-08 08:30:35
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movingforwardwithadhd
Rachella729 :
So grateful to have a partner like this 🥰🥰🥰 grew up with… not this… so having a communicative partner was such a weird and beautiful thing and it was so uncomfortable at first and now it’s the most wonderful contentment I can’t even explain
2026-03-10 16:52:22
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requise66
Wendy :
Couple goals ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
2026-03-06 06:35:05
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kasiakasika
Kasiakaśka :
So wonderful- this is the way 🥰
2026-03-07 07:28:42
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jude64994
Jude :
Love this!
2026-03-06 01:22:17
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lettucedance1
دخان بعد السكس :
يا رب يرزقني بواحد مثله
2026-03-07 10:22:49
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skepticalcats4
skepticalcats :
he's a keeper!
2026-04-15 23:59:45
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rainybrain.art
Oli :
If you're interested in this, you might want to read Non-Violent Communication. It has some really interesting ideas and taught me a lot about navigating conflict with this kind of attitude.
2026-03-06 09:09:26
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____gh_28 :
Crazy how this isn’t the standard
2026-03-10 12:10:47
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boredsobored0
Noentiendo :
💜
2026-03-07 11:46:24
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nothingtoseehere740
La chica negra :
🥰🥰🥰🥰
2026-03-12 02:23:06
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zen_capybaras
🦥 :
Aww Sohee... im so glad that you no longer experience such abusive relationship. 🥺
2026-03-06 02:11:20
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sweetjunfox
AmberFox :
solving the problem as partners ♥️♥️
2026-03-07 14:46:48
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j_cappola_fitcoach
James Cappola :
That’s it 1000 percent
2026-03-07 21:44:26
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bittermuffinthrea
BitterMuffinThreads :
He is such a green flag 🥹
2026-03-25 19:05:25
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la22992
Laurie Sorensen💙 :
I wish I could show this to all of the young men complaining about their loneliness epidemic. 💜💜💜
2026-04-08 18:09:32
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