Benjamin Chipman
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Friday 06 March 2026 20:35:00 GMT
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g’gina :
I just need to stop assuming that I’m annoying them by chatting!!
2026-03-06 22:42:09
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andre :
i find it easy to talk to stragers but hard to move it into a friendship
2026-03-11 03:00:51
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Beeeeeeeee🌸✨ :
pls stop giving people tips, people will start talking to me
2026-03-09 07:03:05
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itsabbyleighton :
If I wanna strike a convo with someone and I don’t know what to say in the moment I just find something to compliment them on. Even if it doesn’t lead to a full blown convo it will at least 100% make their day so there’s really nothing to lose.
2026-03-06 22:28:38
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GEORGII :
As one legend once said “shout out to everybody with social anxiety I kinda feel sorry for you”
2026-03-07 20:19:48
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Kelvy :
I will say sorority recruitment set me up for that life skill
2026-03-06 21:00:40
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Nativa_eistee :
As a bartender, I talk to so many people every day and at some point I just decided that Im gone expect every single guest to wanna talk to me and IT WORKS SO WELL! Even when people come in and aren’t chatty, I’ll still pretend like I’m having the best time and tell them random fun facts about my day and whenever I think to myself that maybe I was doing too much, those are ALWAYS the customers who give a double tip or give a compliment to my manager about how fun their dinner was! I’m still always surprised but people are so lonely and 99% of the time they’re looking for connection and people who interrupt their daily routine😭
2026-03-10 22:45:33
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ava ⭐️ :
started a conversation w a lady in ulta who was also looking at shampoo & conditioner the other day and was so proud of myself 😭😭
2026-03-06 22:49:35
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Tina Belcher :
I'm started yapping to random strangers in public about anything. if they do end up thinking I'm weird that's fine because I'll probably never see them again.
2026-03-07 00:49:48
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melody.claire :
I tell so many fresh graduates that if they are single, they should go on tons of first dates, as it teaches you to chat with strangers and to prep elevator pitches on the fly
2026-03-06 22:30:57
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Emily :
I love talking to strangers, unless they are actively being creepy
2026-03-11 20:41:48
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Fatima Mora :
My main thing is that I can talk to people and usually leave with a omg so nice to meet you but then it dies off and that’s it. I don’t actually know how to continue on for it become a friendship 🧍🏽♀️
2026-04-13 01:00:30
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Wesley Hortenbach :
I think there is some sort of intermediary ground between ‘small talk’ and ‘deep conversations’. Simple gestures that are more for testing the waters and vibe checking. Like a lot of the things you list in the video. It’s not even testing if there’s a big connection but really just code to see if they want to talk more and figure it out.
2026-03-09 16:52:58
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kmhatt9 :
i ask “can i get your opinion on [insert simple thing here] usually like if my hairstyle looks fine or if it’s messed up and then i swing that into a regular convo lol
2026-03-08 18:44:54
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karlllllll :
my problem is ending the conversation, it always end up in silence when nothing can be said 😭
2026-04-01 05:53:07
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🍂 :
the other day i a 27 year old man spent around 40 minutes talking with a 60 year old woman in the laundromat about cleaning, chores, work etc 🥰
2026-03-10 09:42:53
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Leo 𖦹 :
wth are you eating
2026-04-05 20:51:26
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teki.males :
i have anxiety just from watching this video
2026-03-24 01:01:53
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milalala :
opposite problem here, I'm good at talking with strangers (taxi drivers etc) but struggle talking with acquaintances (work colleagues, school friends)
2026-03-23 17:57:59
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Inna :
My problem is that I sturt stuttering and can't put two words in a coherent sentence if I'm not speaking to someone I already know 🥲 I really do wanna start being more open and give people compliments and have small talk and all that, but every time it turns into a stuttering disaster help 😭
2026-03-09 13:14:22
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empeached :
your cup of soup looks yucky. good advice tho TY
2026-03-16 11:16:31
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banan.anne :
How to bond with colleagues that you have nothing in common with? (e.g. they’re parents, they’re older, they have different roles/task than yours..) i struggle so much more in that context than with random regular strangers haha 🥲
2026-03-09 01:29:09
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sweetlyso :
yes!! any tips for total strangers like ata bar rather than day-to-day ppl?
2026-03-06 21:18:06
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Ellen Houk :
At first, I thought you were just gonna use the spoon as a microphone
2026-03-06 21:51:28
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lorenzo77126 :
Practice helps so much! I used to be so afraid now I’m like hey stranger what’s up
2026-03-28 17:38:37
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