@notdoubleuu: we are not asking you to be mind reader ISTG . btw i swear im not in love

SOL :

Saying ‘the peak of love language is not having to ask’ but also saying ‘we’re not asking you to be mind readers’ is kinda the contradiction here. Curiosity is good, yes, but people aren’t born knowing every specific thing their partner likes. Healthy relationships usually work better when curiosity and communication meet in the middle, not when one side has to guess and hope they guessed right.

liena :

"ASKTDFRYNYOHWWTNTUEEUOHTTASK" I felt that

LA :

okay so my girl reposted this and I get the message of the video but I can't seem to understand the capitalized letters, I really wanna make her much happier so if that's hiding or means something more, can someone tell me? Thank you so muchhh

rebn :

Saying the "peak of love language is for you not to ask" implies that your partner should just know what you need, but in reality, people think differently, people express love differently. Even someone who loves you deeply can't always guess what you need. Expecting such can set you up in disappointment. COMMUNICATION IS AT A HIGHER LEVEL. Being able to say what you need and be safely heard takes; trust, EMOTIONAL MATURITY, and vulnerability. Not asking doesn't always mean deep love, rather, it can also mean; fear, pride or unmet needs staying silent.

𝓙🎧 :

asktdfrynyohwwjtnteureohtta?

Jayne ౨ৎ :

oh word? I asked her what does she think about us. She said it's just casual for her. It was never casual for me.

Chunkzzz :

Someone said unspoken expectations are premeditated resentments.

seal🦭 :

ASKTDFRYNYOHWWJTNTUERUOHTTASK

Cuttlefish :

y'all how bad is it I have to ask for it multiple months idk he hadn't shown any signs of getting it for me (flowers) and I now felt like I'm begging?? it's sorta turned into a joke but fr fr I'm coping cuz I just wanted flowers

Schtick :

perspective ain't perceptive sometimes, and this right here was the least of all the examples that we see each.

flint&steel :

ion get it

Eccen :

I always communicate with her, I'm always open but when I'm asking her what's wrong didn't always respond, I'm willing to listen and I'm not a mind reader. I'm starting to question if I'm not that important for her to be open of what she feels

Nants ingonyama bagithi baba :

being vocal is a sign that you feel comfortable and trust one another. This shows maturity and openness.

P :

I actually begged him for this, ang hirap pala pag kailangan mo pang isabi sakanya kung anong ayaw at gusto mo bilang gf. It’s not just about gifts or what, it’s about how they want to do it just for you. 3 years na kami but up until now hind nya parin ako kabisado:(but

myprettygf :

Ate naman ano yang random uppercase letters?😭

Underground man :

tiktok standards

cake :

tiktok standards tiktok standards

yunanana :

nara :

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chaelyysprettyboy❤️ :

I agree with this if you and your partner have been together for a long time, starting out, you should not expect your partner to just know what you need and want, the best way to go about being in a relationship is to learn communication as early as possible, and then you'll get to know each other's wants and needs, and if your partner still doesn't know after a year or two years, that's when you start questioning if they truly see your worth.

Hoshi ☆ :

EXACTLYYYYY!!!!!!!

love, crzhfla :

marphoriak :

TDFRYNYOHWWJTNTUERUOTTASK what

Broniq :

For someone to not ask about doing anything is to know them first, and to know is to ask, to ask is to care

🍀mi.miso_soup🍀 :

He wouldn’t get this feeling :/