@mackenzieherman: They delay emotional processing, and this is why you typically hear from them months later. #avoidant #attachmentstyle #dismissiveavoidant #breakup #theyalwayscomeback
What if it’s been more than 90 days… It’s been almost five months since he cruelly ghosted me and he finally opened the last message I sent him the day he ghosted me
2026-03-06 19:34:11
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Goblin Darts (Alfredo) :
7 months out and I haven't heard a peep from them . dont think i ever will
2026-03-07 02:35:06
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JustPeachyyy :
Our situation was complicated. He’s an avoidant, me anxious. We had a forced ending before we were ready. I asked if he saw a future with me and he couldn’t give me a straight answer. Asked for clarity about it so I could move forward, no response. That was 2 weeks ago. Thoughts? I’m DYING Inside.
2026-03-06 22:06:06
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Gqdee :
They cause chaos on days that are supposed to be happy. Happy birthday, merry Christmas, happy new year, happy anniversary, to the point where those days hold a different meaning. When they leave and you finally are at peace with it, they come back and try to ruin that happiness too. It’s so selfish.
2026-03-08 16:54:44
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Rebekah Dyar :
Part of me wants him to contact me again one day. The other part of me wants nothing to do with him ever again. I just miss my pretty boy, not the person who ended things with me
2026-04-21 02:32:40
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Lori 🌻 :
This is crazy cause it’s literally 60-90 days
2026-03-07 02:18:29
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🧿GingerDevil🧹🕯🌛🌕🌜 :
so he comes back... & then leaves again
2026-03-09 03:36:43
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𝓒𝓵𝓪𝔂 :
I’m blocked
2026-04-30 20:45:22
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Cardinal :
It’s been 5 months since I got discarded, I didn’t hear a single peep from her throughout all that time, in fact I got blocked on the all social media that has my pictures up around the 4 months mark.
2026-03-06 23:38:57
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Ry 🇨🇦 :
what if it was only (though very intense) 3 month relationship
2026-03-06 20:17:10
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withlovedane :
As an anxious the 60-90 days is a living hell for us aswell
2026-03-07 07:10:17
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xshinryu :
My avoidant at month 2 got a new girl 👌
2026-03-07 08:39:02
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Norah | Pilates Instructor :
I don’t think she ever really cared.
2026-03-07 03:20:09
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Gizmo🫶🏻😝🌈 :
9 months since the separation, they just watch my socials still and block and unblock me… 😑
2026-03-06 23:29:33
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JakeJabbers :
it's been 3 months i think it's done
2026-03-16 07:41:55
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Ivan :
Wow! You look gorgeous
2026-03-06 21:04:31
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Irinel Ciprian Nistor :
I love your hair 🥰
2026-03-06 20:56:59
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Eyesharanixx🍒🪭💃🏽 :
He’s back with his ex
2026-03-07 08:34:12
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juanruuf7ci :
What about if she texted me today that she wants to talk about?Divorce and filing paperwork, and it's barely been a month and two weeks. because I might have catched her talking to someone already
2026-03-20 02:40:41
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_littlegingerr_ :
Been 5weeks. Ignored the breadcrumbs for the first time last week… well see 🤷🏼♀️
2026-03-17 01:24:24
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Anna :
is this after break up or after no contact? what if you chased for 6 months?
2026-03-06 19:35:27
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jondough34 :
No contact feels like not trying
2026-03-07 01:33:17
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Hellena :
Took mine 6 months to return.
2026-03-06 22:01:37
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Hoodbaby :
Yep! 2 1/2 months he texted me 😒
2026-03-08 03:53:56
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