@connielingus06: this is a #draft #relatable #wlw #fyp i hate people

boss :

90% of you guys are completely misunderstanding this. i meant this in situations where like there’s a problem in a relationship but the other person reassures you there isn’t when there really is. i am not talking about comforting someone who’s going through it that’d be crazy

xanthe x :

this is why i get so mad when people say “it’ll be okay” because you don’t know that how could you possibly know that

- :

I am so fking sorry for my friend

kelsie :

to silently harbour resentment and bitterness when I thought

🎭atalee :

Would you rather your doctor tell you “you are about to die” or “we’re doing the best we can to help you”?

🦄 :

but then they don’t want anything other than reassurance so what am i supposed to do

alexa :

This is actually so real because why lie and then hold resentment about it when you could address it

ملاك 🇵🇸 :

so then what do u say

Leo_Bogacki :

JUST BE HONEST

Love Takes Miles :

They’ll do anything but communicate

K :

she gave so much reassurance just to vanish without any sort of explanation

Ja$e :

A girl once told me that a problem I had was always reassuring her and saying it’ll be okay instead of just sitting wit her knowing that rn it may not be okay and THAT is okay. Sometimes it’s just someone being there knowing it’s rough. That’s always sat with me

ren :

brushing stuff under the rug is my biggest pet peeve

A’Merie :

i learned this the hard way

tj_canarsie :

am i to burden them with the anxiety of uncertainty by telling them the truth?

Izzy_bizzy :

Literally this. Don’t give me false reassurance. Just tell me the truth and how you really feel

!! betwixt !! :

so true mootie why do people do this

aamorrizzle :

ugh pls don’t remind me

FULK :

bella :3 :

fyp getting way too specific

🧘🏼‍♀️ :

I only say that to someone when I know that I will be there for them to make it okay

k𝜗𝜚˚⋆ :

i hate comforting people because then they get disappointed when they don’t hear what they want, like i’m barely holding it together. especially when they need comfort with things they can easily change or have resources to do better for themselves but somehow want pity

iluvtia00 :

So so cruel

𝙨𝙖𝙙𝙞𝙚 :

Girl I get what u mean

rocesserie :

he didn’t want to tell me because i was ‘already going through so much’ so he wanted me to recover and get better to be able to bring me back down?