YES! As an avoidant, don't give us "snacks." It just stresses you out by making you feel like you have an obligation to provide. It makes us confused and uncomfortable because we can't tell what the expectation is. If you really like us, but we're waxing and waning, don't even engage. Just stay put. Wait until we're done. Or don't, if it's too much to handle. That's not your job. Don't get emotionally attached if you're waiting. As soon as you do just say goodbye. I'd personally rather that than to torture someone, I'm sure other avoidant would feel the same.
2026-05-29 13:16:03
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Kata :
I'm an avoidant and watched the whole thing. Great progress, right? 😅
2026-03-07 04:31:46
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TheyHateToSeeAHappyHoneyComin' :
I'm not getting the snack thing, can anyone explain? thanks
2026-05-11 14:59:40
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Rocks :
I think I am an avoidant but people I like make me anxious attached!
2026-03-07 04:14:50
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Glasstronaut :
And what did you do after that Monica? I ran away and left that person with a broken heart...
2026-03-22 19:12:49
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Ildi :
I would be curious about a disorganized one.
2026-03-08 00:28:00
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Nosha :
Hi, I’m Lisa
2026-03-22 23:58:53
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Rachelle 12 :
This post makes so much sense and I can identify how having Avoidant parents create anxious adult children who have trouble maintaining healthy relationships. Will you please share more of your knowledge about how we can become more confident, attract healthy partners, and how to improve our relationships with avoidant parents/relatives and spouses. How can we stop being anxious or avoidant and shift into being more confident individuals? ❤️
2026-05-06 05:15:35
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nicebutsad8 :
anxious hurts 😳 when someone likes me just for snacks how can I stop being anxious
2026-03-23 08:00:14
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ᨰׁׅꪱׁׅᥣׁׅ֪ժׁׅ݊ :
That s interresting. Cus avoidnats aleays have agendaxto get soemthing out of you. Not the other way around😂
2026-03-07 07:42:41
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Joanne OLeary155 :
These videos are brilliant ✨
2026-03-23 02:36:08
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Drae :
Your voice is so relaxing
2026-03-23 14:31:45
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luminaryofatlantis :
Oh make similar for anxious ones!🔥
2026-03-07 05:19:53
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Tazzy T!n@ :
I was just diagnosed with anxious attachment through some exams through psychology
2026-03-24 04:47:25
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…aboutacacia :
Now why am I being called out in every video
2026-03-22 22:38:43
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Dra. Ayelen Rodriguez :
aquarius group
2026-03-24 13:18:11
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theos :
I love it it’s entertaining yet informative
2026-03-23 18:08:55
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cuntlesstalents :
WE WANT MORE CONTENT 😭 IM sorry but we do
2026-03-23 12:23:54
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weebleve :
Was told I am Anxious but this isn't me. My Avoidant told me I am independent to a fault. Also told me I am Anxious. I am confused
2026-03-07 08:54:33
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Jo ... :
You’re content is so brilliant and unique 🔥
2026-03-23 13:42:28
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🧚🏿♂️Apple Blossoms🧚🏿♂️ :
Wow
2026-05-10 12:35:07
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Mariam Nashkawaa :
I want to join all the groups 😅🤣😂
2026-06-01 13:47:20
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i could stay for the whole session and still avoid it thanks to dissociation 😭 like lwk i hate avoiding but my brain cant handle this world lol
2026-04-05 13:02:02
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