𝐑𝐢𝐧𝐚 ᥫ᭡ (89/70) :
Fr, I thought breaking up with him would destroy me, that I would never get over him or the situation, finally choosing myself was hard, but after weeks of my mental health and emotional state degrading bcs of him, I’ve finally chose myself. It was a hard decision, but also the best I could’ve ever made. At first, we think that letting go will just worsen our state when in reality, letting go of something that hurts you will forever be the best choice possible, what would really worsen our state is clinging to something that drains us, hurts us. Letting go of him felt Iike a weight just got off my shoulders, I never felt so relieved. Letting go hurts, but it will always hurts less than staying with something that degrades your state, more and more everyday. The one advice I will always have for everyone is choosing theirselves. The only person we can count on 100% till our death is ourself and ourself only, so why waste time feeling terribly bad for something, someone, or literally anything that drains us out, may it be physically, mentally or even worse, both. Choose yourself, it will always help you out in the end.
2026-04-01 09:52:48