@drbeckyatgoodinside: Here’s a reframe that might feel uncomfortable to hear at first: The goal isn’t raising kids who don’t have big feelings. The goal is raising kids who can have big feelings… and not be taken over by them. Feelings aren’t weakness. They’re information about what matters to us. When we help kids build the skills to manage disappointment, jealousy, frustration - we’re not making them soft. We’re building the exact muscles they’ll need for real life.