@itselivazquez: Focus on the patterns not the ending. #avoidant #healing #breakup #discard #women

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katy2star
katy :
he treated me great up until the day he texted me and dumped me out of the blue without any warning,we dated for 10 months
2026-03-07 19:36:58
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niqig123
Niq :
He just abruptly stopped talking to me. He read my last message, which was me reaching out and never responded and I know he's alive because I can see him logging on and off. Conversation was normal prior -- last thing he said was that he had a headache but was feeling better. He hasn't removed me from his friends list but also does not watch my stories either. Communication was good prior too -- he had doubts and expressed them and I explained myself and he seemed satisfied with my responses. It's been 20 days and he ghosted me 2 days after valentines day. He was acting a bit weird, like he was conflicted on whether or not he gonna stay for the date, which he did and was very romantic. Sunday was normal and then the last I heard from him was mid Monday. I'm heartbroken.
2026-03-08 21:30:59
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warrior_in_his_kingdom
👑Elizabeth💋 :
There was no healthy communication whenever I try to express myself everything always got turned around on me and now I see that and I will keep pushing forward even when you try to come back I said no I’m not getting back into that mess
2026-03-07 19:11:23
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healthandhealing23
Helloflowerpetals :
When a guy comes back, is it ever genuine?
2026-03-07 23:44:11
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kriscu_
Kristen 🌻 :
He told me he loved me for the first time after almost two years. A week later he said he didn’t love me like I loved him. 😮‍💨
2026-04-12 01:37:23
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janettemery96
JanetEM :
He presented being overwhelmed… I let him go find peace. He accepted.
2026-03-07 18:57:33
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mrs.c_garner
Starts with a C :
He stopped speaking to me for a week and then called me crying ending things. He talked in circles and I have no clue what happened.
2026-03-29 01:54:48
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nmadias16
Mad-I-as Bby🥰 :
It’s a whole storyyy I swear 🥺🥺🥺
2026-03-07 18:27:10
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irenedominquez52
Irene :
he texted me and said yea I did fall in love with someone else , than a week later he texted wyd I didn't respond
2026-04-25 16:36:42
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reclaimingmeee
Hopelessromantik :
He said he needed to find himself and then he got into a rebound 2 days after
2026-03-27 10:31:48
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saraarmettahair
sara :
He was talking behind my back to his mom and then told me he couldn’t give me what I needed. 6 weeks before our wedding.
2026-03-08 19:57:57
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peace8future0
peace8future0 :
He delayed text response 24hrs then said I deserve better
2026-03-09 00:46:14
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heylah00
Heylah :
Together 19 months. He broke up with a one sentence text.
2026-03-11 19:45:43
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lizloganberry
lizloganberry :
27 years and he cheated. Definitely fearful avoidant and me as anxious attached. I know that now.
2026-03-07 19:57:14
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tropi_girl_pr
Kathy Kat :
omggg facts
2026-03-07 20:39:13
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loveme_kiki
Nikisha Lynn :
Oooofff👏👏👏
2026-03-07 18:26:42
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eniaves71
stella :
he is so good
2026-03-12 00:33:22
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sabrinadoggroomer
Sabrina Bennani223 :
Would not give me a title... said I was his everything. Been dearest friends 16 years. Wouldn't partner up with me so I said this isn't going to happen... we were both bawling our eyes out. You can't make me hate him
2026-05-05 06:44:31
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zandra_maria
Zandra_Maria :
We were together for a whole year a week after our one year he broke down and told me about his health physical and mental. Said facing himself and his health declining is something he can’t share with me. He asked for space to retreat to heal and get well. It has blown my mind because he never avoided anything and was amazing he taught me how to get out of my avoidant ways. I hope he gets better
2026-03-08 18:12:41
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alvin2o6
user2218701267581 :
he said he lost his job?
2026-03-09 05:37:57
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amandrc72
AmandaR :
I left him
2026-05-04 22:41:09
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roofismom
Andrea :
He didn’t let me go to where he works. He didn’t like the boundaries I set with female friends he had. He then asked me to move out the last day we could sign our new lease.
2026-03-09 01:26:49
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michellemarie1973
Michelle Marie :
2yrs ...1st 7 to 8 mons great...then started changing...out of the blue said "im always to close to him" then it continued to get worse from there ups & downs, being secretive, pushing me out of his life, acting like I was a bother to him, then pulled away so far...acted like he didn't care, hurt me so much, then broke up w me, acted so cold, like I meant nothing to him :(
2026-03-08 22:38:24
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katharinehixson
Katie :
The patterns were there and I ignored them. I thought I could save him. Now he’s off to wife #3. I just feel bad for my babies. 😭
2026-03-07 19:33:59
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