@ilyas.abdulin: Men Are The Original “Pick Me’s”? Let’s Talk Biology and Dating. A viral video claims men are the original “pick me’s” because in nature males compete for female attention. But when you actually look at how dating works in real life, the pattern described as “natural” is exactly what we already see today - men usually approach first, initiate conversations and ask women out on dates. The argument even uses bees as an example of what the “natural order” would look like. But bees are eusocial insects, while humans are mammals built around pair bonding and cooperative parenting. Attraction doesn’t work with one gender above the other - reproduction works through mutual selection where both sides compete and both sides choose. #dating #relationships #debate #socialcommentary #discussion

*严星怀* :

i am not a bee

orenzt0 :

Luis :

Septum piercing theory remains undefeated. Worse of all, her analogy isn't nearly as good as she think it is (for her I mean) 😅 there's ONE queen per hive, heaps of "female" workers and a bunch of males whose sole purpose in life is to mate with the queen. Septum though she was the queen in her perfect little picture, but hell no, that would be a Kate Upton, a Tyra Banks, pick your favorite 9.5 or above woman. THAT'S A QUEEN. Then those of us guys who manage to fit into that perfect world, would get to have our fun with a ridiculously attractive woman and then get lost without a care in the world. And septum girl? She's just some random worker taking care of the queen's offspring 😅😅😅 she clearly didn't think it through 🤷🏻‍♂️Great vid man!

❤ :

projection

Sajnis :

Nuss :

Very clear and precise 👊

leooooo :

People forget we are all humans with first person consciousness that actually feel

Kevin Da Bee :

I AM a bee and i think this is very HIGHLY OFFENSIVE

Itz_kili? :

Am i bee?

am I even alive? :

high iq bhai

Ariswils :

U the goat nobody is the pick me we are all humans

Edi_nam :

Unbeaten

⃟ :

She votes btw

Zain :

Enorius :

I'm pretty sure there was a bird that literally danced to attract females

bô :

🥰🥰🥰

Dead Eye :

Everything she said about nature, only applies where the species choose a mating partner based off said performance, but all i see is women dressing up, caked in make-up, fake nail, fake lips, fake lashes, hell even whole ass wigs. And she dares to say that men are the pick-me's? That men compete for female attention?

✞𝕬𝖓𝖙𝖍𝖔𝖓𝖞✞ :

A lot of species have breeding seasons when the males literly grape the females. Deer are a good example. Now imagine if I used that in the same context as her beehive analogy. Imagine i ended this sentence explaining how male deer literly rape female deer in, "period 💅," just like how she did in the beehive analogy.

THE Johnny(subaru takeover) :

Without the male bees than there would be no more female bees