@therealalexcoal: on forgiveness. Also if you hurt someone and then you get upset when they don't forgive you, you've learned nothing. You feel entitled to their forgiveness, and you shouldn't. You caused the pain. You caused the harm. You don't get to demand forgiveness after that to make yourself feel better. You can sit in your guilt until you learn from it.

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medulla4578
Pzacc :
Having engaged in a formal amends process over the last years I can attest to this. Actual amends end with the statement, “ Did I cover everything or am I leaving something out?”. Sometimes an amend is never darkening that persons door again.
2026-03-09 11:48:18
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dekostiktok
DekoNutz :
thanks Alex
2026-03-21 08:51:44
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seveneightninez
ZzzZ :
When you put in the work to discover why the person you won’t forgive became the way they are, you can develop an understanding that is greater than forgiveness. It heals you while allowing you to still dislike them.
2026-03-17 16:55:07
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jeffyorkchicago
JeffYorkChicago :
Well said. And so correct. Alex, you made a great difference today. Thank you.
2026-03-10 06:29:44
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jmorg91
jmorg91 :
Could not agree more! respect too! respect is earned, courtesy is given. if you find yourself losing respect for someone, raise your prices!
2026-03-10 13:35:02
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roy.carpenter50
Roy Carpenter :
REAL TALK,,💯
2026-03-30 08:00:31
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davidlyons341
WhatDifDoesItMake :
Love your honesty and how you cut thru a lot of BS.
2026-03-09 05:33:06
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davidvaldes314
davidv1965 :
absolutely agree ✌️✌️✌️
2026-03-09 09:21:10
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eddiebe
eddiebe :
Hi dear,
2026-03-10 07:21:29
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alexandersonm
Alex :
Exactly, forgiving someone now puts some of the blame on yourself especially if the issue happens again. No one deserves your forgiveness, but I'll take it further. You don't owe anyone anything. It's your life, live it how you want it.
2026-03-09 01:34:06
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darryllinder0
UpperCase🌟 :
crystal clear 👌 ✨️
2026-03-09 14:52:03
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tallviking83
Ben :
well said.
2026-03-09 04:39:17
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a12lejandro
Alejandro vazquez almonte :
Forever ❤️🌹
2026-03-09 05:12:55
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no1puckfan
no1puckfan :
Powerful and nicely stated you're so cute too 🔥
2026-03-09 21:13:28
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mj38254
mj38254 :
I needed to hear this. Thank you.
2026-03-09 02:53:39
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appleuser37694830
mc1 :
There’s never been a better time to hear this message! 🥰
2026-03-14 01:23:00
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shadow.queen663
Shadow Queen :
i totally agree with you
2026-03-09 17:47:43
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radiohead250
Pete Desmond :
PREACH
2026-03-09 02:21:42
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ryanoc12
Ryan :
I have never thought about forgiveness like that and how it is used to manipulate people, Great point.
2026-03-09 01:40:30
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jarrod2864028
jarrod2864028 :
🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼Thank you for sharing your kind wisdom.
2026-04-17 23:01:57
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mariotaylor81
mariotaylor81 :
🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰So gorgeous A 💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤✨✨✨✨✨
2026-03-17 19:45:03
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markhansen257
markhansen257 :
Just make more videos
2026-03-17 23:47:56
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hollywoodhorrormuseum
Hollywood Horror Museum :
hey, forgive me, for finding you so gorgeous!
2026-03-09 20:37:38
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lamoe6088
user3355303541660 :
good info alex🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
2026-03-10 21:43:09
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