@therealalexcoal: on forgiveness. Also if you hurt someone and then you get upset when they don't forgive you, you've learned nothing. You feel entitled to their forgiveness, and you shouldn't. You caused the pain. You caused the harm. You don't get to demand forgiveness after that to make yourself feel better. You can sit in your guilt until you learn from it.
Having engaged in a formal amends process over the last years I can attest to this. Actual amends end with the statement, “ Did I cover everything or am I leaving something out?”. Sometimes an amend is never darkening that persons door again.
2026-03-09 11:48:18
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DekoNutz :
thanks Alex
2026-03-21 08:51:44
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ZzzZ :
When you put in the work to discover why the person you won’t forgive became the way they are, you can develop an understanding that is greater than forgiveness. It heals you while allowing you to still dislike them.
2026-03-17 16:55:07
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JeffYorkChicago :
Well said. And so correct. Alex, you made a great difference today. Thank you.
2026-03-10 06:29:44
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jmorg91 :
Could not agree more! respect too! respect is earned, courtesy is given. if you find yourself losing respect for someone, raise your prices!
2026-03-10 13:35:02
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Roy Carpenter :
REAL TALK,,💯
2026-03-30 08:00:31
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WhatDifDoesItMake :
Love your honesty and how you cut thru a lot of BS.
2026-03-09 05:33:06
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davidv1965 :
absolutely agree ✌️✌️✌️
2026-03-09 09:21:10
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eddiebe :
Hi dear,
2026-03-10 07:21:29
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Alex :
Exactly, forgiving someone now puts some of the blame on yourself especially if the issue happens again. No one deserves your forgiveness, but I'll take it further. You don't owe anyone anything. It's your life, live it how you want it.
2026-03-09 01:34:06
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UpperCase🌟 :
crystal clear 👌 ✨️
2026-03-09 14:52:03
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Ben :
well said.
2026-03-09 04:39:17
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Alejandro vazquez almonte :
Forever ❤️🌹
2026-03-09 05:12:55
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no1puckfan :
Powerful and nicely stated you're so cute too 🔥
2026-03-09 21:13:28
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mj38254 :
I needed to hear this. Thank you.
2026-03-09 02:53:39
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mc1 :
There’s never been a better time to hear this message! 🥰
2026-03-14 01:23:00
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Shadow Queen :
i totally agree with you
2026-03-09 17:47:43
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Pete Desmond :
PREACH
2026-03-09 02:21:42
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Ryan :
I have never thought about forgiveness like that and how it is used to manipulate people, Great point.
2026-03-09 01:40:30
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jarrod2864028 :
🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼Thank you for sharing your kind wisdom.
2026-04-17 23:01:57
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mariotaylor81 :
🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰So gorgeous A 💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤✨✨✨✨✨
2026-03-17 19:45:03
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markhansen257 :
Just make more videos
2026-03-17 23:47:56
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Hollywood Horror Museum :
hey, forgive me, for finding you so gorgeous!
2026-03-09 20:37:38
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user3355303541660 :
good info alex🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
2026-03-10 21:43:09
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