Girly, I’m sorry to hear this. But I promise it’s not like this for everyone! I been married since 18 & and now 22! That man is my best friend and my biggest supporter. We’re growing together and we’re living our best life together 🥰
2026-03-09 11:37:00
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🎀heba🎀 :
this is based on personal experience
2026-03-09 16:55:07
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Hurrum :
I married at 26 and that's when my life ended. I miss being with my parents and doing what I wanted. now I have to cater to him and his needs. my life revolves around him and I'm just a helper
2026-03-10 17:27:10
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Z :
Cause I know my self very well I wouldn’t want to get married young
2026-03-09 11:03:19
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KookwithKhadija :
Sorry it didn’t work out for you girly but kindly please don’t project your experiences onto other people. It’s not like this for everyone, this is purely your Qadr and Allah tests us all differently. It’s really important now how you let this test shape you as a person. Instead let’s focus on what we should look out for and positively advising women💗 sending you lots of love x
2026-03-09 19:25:47
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evita in 🇧🇬 :
i got married at 24 and my husband is great, but i agree with this message, you dont need to rush
2026-03-09 21:34:03
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🧍🏾♀️ :
i don’t regret getting married young and would do it again but you deffo have to acknowledge that there’s a certain level of selfishness that you will never have again. i live my life and do what i want but i still always have to consider my spouse, that is just the reality. it’s not a bad reality at all, i love my life! but it is something to think about for sure
2026-03-10 13:06:59
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bubblegum_ugccreator :
I believe it’s all about finding a right man. I have been married since 17 almost 18 and we have been married for almost 5 years and just had a baby I can’t imagine a day without my husband! He is my biggest supporter
2026-03-09 12:03:05
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Saliah_begum17 :
You not ready so that’s cool. I was
2026-03-09 19:52:52
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انعام :
Guys all she’s saying is make the most of your single life whilst you can and don’t rush getting married 😭😭
2026-03-10 04:48:30
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Anna Culver :
So sorry it didn’t work out for you but me and my husband are doing great. I got married at 20. Everyone is different. It depend on your partner and if they’re going to allow you to grow. It is possible to grow in a marriage. Marriage isn’t prison. You still have freedom.
2026-03-09 18:52:32
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Touba :
The frontal lobe fully develops by 25 years old (decision making, impulse etc). You generally have a good idea of who you are + your criteria in a lifelong partner + post-self discovery in your early 20’s to REALLY be able to decipher who may be aligned to your values/ life. You can absolutely grow in your marriage but those years of self love/ discovery don’t come back (highly recommend becoming comfortable on your own + financial/mental independence). I agree with this message but also know of successful marriages that came about from being married young. The reality is, financial instability and reliance on family is a big component when you’re a new grad or still in school, it’s added stress to an already challenging time. I met my husband at 21 and got married at 26 once we had stability in our lives and careers. 5 years into our marriage, BEST decision to take our time! We have grown together through so many chapters but I can’t imagine doing all of this so much younger. Maturity to resolve issues is also important.
2026-03-12 16:05:32
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Oh! :
Girl I love your videos so much as someone who isn’t married in my early twenties. I think you’re helping so many girls by speaking about your experiences. I hope you and your son are always happy and blessed!
2026-03-09 03:52:17
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Baneen :
Can you pls speak more on this? What are some challenges you specifically faced? (if you’re comfortable sharing ofc) I would love to hear more💘
2026-03-09 10:12:18
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Atifaaaaa 🍓 | Psych :
thisssss omggg !! ergh will never get my early 20s back. also guys a successful marriage isn't about how long the marriage is or about staying married, its about whether ur HAPPY, not "settled" but truley happy.
2026-03-10 05:02:28
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Mahiyat :
That's why I married at 27😂
2026-03-09 15:08:53
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💐🪻miaour🌿⚘️ :
i wanna marry right person early,
Finish bachelors at 24, marry at 25, have kids at 27 (SO LATE).. cuz I dont want my kids to be 10yo when Im 48 😭 OMG
2026-03-11 19:28:56
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mizzzzzbah :
Absolutely. You’re TOO young enjoy ur life first
2026-03-10 11:36:18
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..__._73 :
We’ve been together for 5 years at 18 and have grown and learned and I want nothing more than to care for a man and our children
2026-03-10 00:40:44
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ARAS 🩵 :
I agree with you tbh, but it’s not black and white. I got married at 19, thank god he’s a good man! He is good because his sent him not because I know how to choose the right partner. But do I regret my marriage? Absolutely not, 6 years of marriage the only thing I regret is not being nicer to him in the beginning of our marriage 🥹. Now I care more I cook for him and do little things to make him feel loved, and when he feels loved the whole world including his family notices that! Alhamdulilah. May Allah grant any girl who wants to get married a god fearing husband 🤍
2026-03-10 07:31:20
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Saidur Rahman :
for sure educate people from your experience, however do not discourage people getting married young. Not everyones experience is same.
2026-03-09 15:30:24
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izahbutt :
Thx i needed that😭
2026-03-09 10:38:06
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zaarzbaarz1327 :
Think u just married the wrong person
2026-04-04 17:53:14
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melllll7659 :
Finally some real advice 🖤
2026-03-09 19:38:47
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Haley_eu :
I’m sorry but I’ll take my chances on love
2026-03-09 19:59:33
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