@healingbythenumbers_: If you’re planning to leave an abusive relationship, start documenting NOW! One simple step you can take is to photograph the entire house: furniture, drawers, cabinets, everything! It may feel weird, but those photos create a timestamped record of what existed before things start “disappearing” or accusations start flying during a divorce or legal fight. Documentation protects you, and it can also help you start thinking about what you want to take with you when you escape 🫶 Follow along this week for Escalation Week! #escapeplan #leavingabuse #survivorstories #domesticabuseawareness #HealingJourney
A good cover for that type of pictures is home insurance and it should be updated yearly.
2026-03-09 23:23:31
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alli :
I’m a divorce attorney and this is a great idea!
2026-03-09 16:46:10
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Salwa- :
You can also email it to a safe person if you cant keep it in your technology
2026-03-09 17:37:28
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Sara not Sar-raH :
I wasn't able to take anything when I left, and then my ex MIL sold a lot of my stuff before I could get it back. I wish I'd known this then but it all happened so fast at the time
2026-03-09 14:18:53
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lex_equis :
My deepest condolences to every women who has had to do this. You are so strong for getting out!
2026-03-09 19:41:29
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AvetheCatbug :
You are helping so many people with this series. I wish I had thought to do this at the time. I lost a few precious things when I left because I just wanted to get out as quick as possible and didn’t think to check in a specific room/drawer.
2026-03-10 11:58:19
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Lyss Barkhaus :
what are your jeans???? love them!
2026-03-09 21:38:20
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Westboutilier 🇨🇦🍁 :
It’s also highly recommended for insurance purposes which is a great excuse for doing it as well.
2026-03-09 21:53:44
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Ashley Ann :
I left 6 years ago in an emergency situation, but I wish I had your videos back then. Thank you for posting and sharing 💜
2026-03-09 20:31:53
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poot :
this has been one big piece of advice I give to either parents leaving their coparent or people getting divorced. Pics, evidence, and documentation is always your friend. you may never need it, oh well then what have you lost? a few minutes?
2026-03-09 23:10:38
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myladygrayfox :
Honestly after the Altadena and Palisades fires last year, an annual photo collection of everything is just a smart thing to do. My friends who lost everything still think of new things that were lost.
2026-03-09 21:10:46
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marisaxstone :
That is smart
2026-03-09 15:28:28
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Eeleidas :
My show is on!!
2026-03-09 15:12:11
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Kali Colovos :
I do this every couple years for actual insurance reasons. We have lost things we couldn’t remember for insurance claims and I want proof should anything ever happen
2026-03-10 04:00:43
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moon :
while I don't personally need this information right now, it's really great. I just wanted to say thank you on behalf of the women who don't know where to start and this is a really good resource
2026-03-10 22:06:09
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LMDAGLemus :
I am so invested in this even though I’m not in this situation
2026-03-09 22:49:30
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Emily 🇨🇦 :
I helped my mom write a list of what was ours vs her ex husband’s
2026-03-10 10:23:49
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🇺🇸🆘vex :
…..I need to do this. This is so smart
2026-03-09 17:35:16
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V.B. Wayne ~Author~ :
Too early once again
2026-03-09 14:16:12
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Novellum :
This should be a book!
2026-03-13 14:39:46
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auntie.blecker :
I love your content. You are so brave to leave. But even more brave with sharing your story and helping other woman break free too. It's tough, I'm absolutely sure of it. But thank you for putting this out there to help our sisters. ♥️
2026-04-12 22:07:32
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Kristen :
Love the photograph and def leppard reference 😂
2026-03-13 14:54:28
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Galaxy :
My mother fled with us in tow, I was three, way too young to remember or conceptualise why we were suddenly in a shelter across the country
listening to you talk about it in a matter of fact way, explaining every step and thought process is oddly healing to me. I'm happy you could escape<3
2026-03-15 20:04:51
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💙 Lori The Blissful Granny 💙 :
it's also a good idea for insurance as well
2026-03-13 23:21:32
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🧡Ratatchewy🐀 :
You sound like Tunnel/Stone Castle lady... Love that for you 💜
2026-03-28 13:55:20
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