I notice that when I have a clingy man I tend to pull back but when I have an avoidant man I get so clingy
2026-03-10 04:15:25
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KTH🇪🇹,🇳🇱 :
Oeeeeeh i'm definitely not ready for this.. nope nope nope.
2026-05-03 20:46:54
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Alex Bethea :
So I always thought I had an anxious attachment but after a toxic relationship I think I have disorganized attachment. Is it possible for your attachment style to change due to adult relationship dynamics?
2026-03-21 13:35:07
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sabrina444 :
so this is me
2026-04-12 13:56:37
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Bookslug :
No. It’s not safe and dangerous. It feels deeply wanted and dangerous.
2026-03-29 10:53:12
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Leeanne :
I’ve resonated with disorganized attachment most of my life, I’ve been single for several years now and have done a lot of work. I feel like I could be more secure with another secure person but the dating scene is proving difficult. I do notice now that during the talking/early dating stage that I feel “performative”? Maybe now that I’ve been alone so long I can’t naturally participate. I can like someone but being in their presence feels like I’m playing a role or masking and I end up feeling drained…
2026-03-26 03:44:32
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Becky :
sounds like me
2026-03-16 12:12:18
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yellow flowers :
Yes I felt that
2026-03-16 23:25:11
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imanygirl :
does attachment only apply to intimate relationships? because I don't do those at all and never have and it's nothing to do with attachment but not wanting anything to do with sexual activity
2026-03-10 03:23:40
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Katy.b.82 :
Adoptee here! I feel this immensely. My adoptive parents were providers and I know they loved me but I was emotionally neglected. Healing my shame wound has been very difficult. I yearn for connection and love but my body does take over and I freeze and run.
2026-03-11 02:28:12
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Mike s :
🥰
2026-03-11 13:25:57
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