My current struggle is the shower, I love feeling clean but it’s the steps that I hate.
2026-03-10 12:14:49
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Đaṽe Ƀ :
the kitchen is absolutely not one task. i mean sorting the plates. washing, drying putting away. is 4 jobs for washing up. then sides wipe down, mop. its a collosal task
2026-03-10 13:09:25
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😈👾 Kandyy :
she's completely correct
2026-03-10 22:04:10
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Blue Sapphire 🇨🇦 :
My husband asks me to “do the laundry” and wonders why after 30 minutes I’m burned out
2026-03-10 14:42:40
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Gracefulomg 🏳️🌈🇺🇸🆘✊🏾 :
Yes!!! I actually break it down and write it down so I can cross things off.
2026-03-10 19:29:58
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aheiser27 :
I literally just wrote a 20 step list to clean 3 rooms of the house. Because if I don't write out every step and give myself multiple things to cross off as I finish them, I get overwhelmed and nothing will get done.
2026-03-10 19:20:08
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Annje :
and this is why I'm in paralysis and don't know where to start.
2026-03-11 03:49:46
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JFitheach :
This is a convo I have with my partner often he thinks theres like 3 steps to cleaning a room but me? I know theres like 20
2026-03-10 17:30:35
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Kay Frost :
I have to empty the dishwasher before I can load it... and that is barrier I struggle to overcome every time
2026-03-13 18:30:07
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James R :
No it is NOT just one task! NOTHING is just “one” task!!! 😆
2026-03-10 12:24:05
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Fat Dad :
she knows ball
2026-03-10 13:09:48
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PraetorianGuard82 :
absolutely me. I can't start cooking until the dishwasher is unloaded and loaded, sink is clear, every possible counter top I may need is clean and clear. So cooking dinner becomes a multi-step process.
2026-03-10 12:45:54
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Nicole Joy Neish McM :
when you say load the dishwasher, do you have a separate video for people that don't have a dishwasher as so many people don't. I only ask as doing the dishes is the chore I put off most often
2026-03-10 12:57:12
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Rustic Druid :
Ok time to clean the stove. The spray is not in its usual spot now I need find that. The towels we have are too few and I need more. Damnit the stove has pans on it. The sink is full. Well time to flop on the couch and doomscroll.
2026-03-10 15:24:38
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Whiley4774 :
And each step also has steps. In order to clean I must first open a cupboard door, grab the cleaner, grab the cloth, close the cupboard door. I’m already mentally exhausted.
2026-03-10 14:03:59
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rich & rox • adhd love :
Don’t get tricked 🤣 in dubbii we breakdown housework into simple follow along tasks 🩵
2026-03-10 12:13:19
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Hyjano10 :
So true Rox!!.. I just focus on one task- ex throw away trash on counters- to get started then I do the next task... if I dont get distracted when I clean the bar.. lol
2026-03-10 12:20:09
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tryinghusband :
I don't understand how others can say anything is one task. it's so many little details in it!!
2026-03-19 08:45:38
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Kezza Blues :
Kitchen is not one task. I’m ahhd/asd I agree with her. Many steps
2026-03-10 21:58:15
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Sherry :
exactly
2026-03-10 14:10:17
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villian_ace :
all those steps have mini steps to
2026-03-10 16:10:15
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The Autistic Warrior ❤️🔥 :
It definitely isn't just one task. It's multiple tasks and I literally need a rest between each one and often can't even start any of it.
2026-03-10 13:31:18
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Sam DeCoster :
Rox gets it
2026-03-10 12:14:47
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Kassey :
Speaking of kitchens…. I like your kitchen
2026-03-18 00:25:38
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EastCoast :
OMG!! 😮😮 Is that really an ADHD THING?? I have been like that my WHOLE life!! I also got my ADHD diagnosis at the age of 34 after two of my kids were diagnosed with it 😂😂. Always learning ♥️♥️
2026-03-10 22:50:35
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