@therapytothepoint: Sometimes people don’t disrespect you directly. They do it in subtle ways. I share 5 signs to watch for. #emotionallyimmature #passiveaggresive #toxicfriend #toxicfriends #emotionallyimmaturepeople

rob.ryon :

This is why self-respect is key. You notice the small stuff before it becomes big.

GenXWarrior :

#2 isn’t what you think it is. The person canceling could be in functional freeze. Not a good example.

sam :

can you make a video on how to respond to backhanded compliments?

Rene :

Canceling at last minute can mean a lot of things. Depression, anxiety, reclusion, extreme introversion, dissociation, agoraphobia. I actually can’t stay in relationship with someone who takes my withdrawal personally, moralizes about it, or requires me to “put in the same effort.” My effort looks different and I need to be accepted for who I am. And I am someone who often can’t leave the house, even if I had intended to, and who needs periods of withdrawal. (At the same time, I try to manage expectations by making tentative commitments and let people know where my capacity is closer to the event.) Also, I’m almost never going to reach out first. If someone needs that, no disrespect; I’m just not a good fit for that person.

M :

idc

🌷 :

Omfg I should’ve seen it coming 💔💔💔

rip :

I fear this is me. not all descriptions but still. I feel bad for my surroundings sorry🙏

Ball :

is it not disrespect if i do these without knowing its disrespect

SR :

Love your posts

~ Sea Hag ~ :

Oh, my boss

Lelyh :

Im from Mozambique, and basically everyone is disrespectful here, because if you are lucky we can cancel last minute, usually we are 2 hours late, if we show up 😅

Paul 🇦🇺🇺🇸🇨🇦🇬🇧🇳🇿 :

You’re doing a good job!

herpowercode :

My “best friend” when i shared news about my promotion: “well that was quick, aww I’m so proud of you, so do you think your rent is going to go up again this year”

robinpetersenn :

I cancel due to last minute panic 😭

Daniel :

number 4 oh my goodness

Its.mya :

I agree with all this

Nick Han :

woah

mrbenzol :

You know, the word "passive" is something I should learned like long time ago.

Nathan :

Warisa 💗 :

Fr

MIMexicana :

Lo seinto

Ryder 🇵🇸 :

no4 got me surprised

Ricardo S :

#3 i disagree with. I express myself like that and generally i mean what i say even if people think it's me being sarcastic or what not. it's just a communication style for some.

MIMexicana :

Your hand some

Seductive_toxin :

Ignoring, downplay or reaction formation