@vibe_samurai: Most people think over-explaining shows honesty or vulnerability. But sometimes it reveals something else entirely. The moment you feel the need to explain yourself over and over again, the dynamic of the conversation has already changed. Because once someone realizes you need to be understood…they gain leverage. And that’s the psychological trap most people never notice. #psychology #communication #mindset #selfawareness #socialdynamics

Rommel-7.62mm :

Not only over communicating, but also oversharing; not everyone needs to know everything about you. Always maintain some aloofness.

KC :

destinydragonblade :

I learned this as a kid. that no one cares about what I have to say so I learned to stay quiet. I don´t even want to explain once. if what I said isn´t understood the first time, never mind than

️ :

I stumbled across The Forbidden Codex of Influence by Julian Voss and I’ll never look at manipulation, desire and influence the same again.

charlie :

My brother used to do this I think it was more of a narcissistic trait and the unwillingness of him letting me talk😂

Julia :

There is no such thing as overcommunicating . This video makes no sense. Majority of relationship doesn’t work out because people don’t know HOW to explain themselves properly. And nothing is wrong with explaining yourself to someone who “don’t understand”, as long as they ask you to and show genuine interest in understanding.

Ali :

That just happen to me right now

lindasoon2 :

I learn something today

Zachariah :

the problem is "need"

AndrewSteadOrg :

facts. even people hate it

It’sAlma🌸 :

I used to do this but I also found out it was not helping me, it just made me appear like begging. And I felt it. What you said is so accurate ‘coz I experienced it myself.

🌺MyDae🌺 :

If you understand my language I’ll explain it twice. Third time I’m busy telling someone else

French Hearted :

I’m guilty of this. 😔

enestor13 :

Next time just tag me 😅

Winn Mann :

Powerful statement

LADYSLIPPER :

You are so right

RDiane :

Spot on

AW :

Excellent 👍 Thank you

user908965017021 :

Very true

danielfreedman4 :

love this

lindasoon2 :

Thank you.

Sylvia :

Took me a long while to stop this🌹🍀

Wendy Wilderness Wanderer :

I don't speak anymore if I am the same question twice

ericarn2004 :

Authority doesn’t chase understanding 👏

Sargam :

It’s hard to come to come to terms that they actually don’t care… but it’s so true!